can a girl go fron being a guys option to a guys priority? Guys, if a girl is you option friend, does she ever become you priority friend? if so how, and do the changes start with her?
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an "option" girl is the girl a guy has who may be classified as a friend, but not really. the option girl is there when the guy's relationship ends and may even be the cause of a relationship ending. the option girl is the girl the guy sin't sure he wants to be with, but she has a certain something that is intriguing to him.
the priority girl is the girl a guy would drop everything for. think of a two way call. if the guy is on his mobile with the "option" girl and the "priority" girl calls, he ends the call with option girl. Priority girl may or may not be the girlfriend, but she seemingly has higher priority or status in the guys eyes
2007-04-11 09:31:53 · 4 answers · asked by phoenixchi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, yes the 'option girl' can become the 'priority girl.' It can happen a lot of different ways[here are five]:
1) Priority girl loses her edge over the option girl [for instance - priority girl starts dating some loser, option girl may be single]
2) Lose contact with priority girl [when priority steps out of the picture, option girl steps up]
3) Option girl steps up to the plate [variation of number 1, but this time the option girl does the action in making herself better than the priority]
4) Guy becomes bored with priority [variation of number 1 again, but this time it is the guy making the change in wants]
5) Foul ball [guy, because of lonliness or drunkeness, gets with option girl by mistake]
2007-04-11 14:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by bonsai67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl can only become a priority when a guy likes her and wants to date her. A girl is an option only when something better is currently pre-occuping his time.
A girl that is a priority usually entails some form of committment and attachment. A girl that is not a priority usually entails the opposite.
There are occasions when a girl can become a guys priority, but ultimately its the guys decision. If the guy is not into the girl she will always just be an option... in the real world we call that a "friend."
2007-04-16 21:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Loren C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you asked this guy what you had to do to be his priority, he wouldn't know. cuz if he knew what he wanted he would see a girl and be like " aha, i want that one"
but he can't make a solid desicion like that because he doesn't know what he wants. so dump him. indisiciveness is for girls
i see the girl i want, i walk straight up to her and i say " girl, you have been driving me crazy since you walked in the room. you are exactly what i dream of. you are my top priority, i want you" that's how a man does it.
2007-04-19 12:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump you so fast. I don't play second fiddle.
2007-04-19 15:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by p00756 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋