ok ladies, is a guy haveing a 6 pack and like pecks matter at all?
heres a picture i took moment ago to example myself
http://img211.imageshack.us/img211/8696/lda173f7bb6f6959475975faq9.jpg
I work out every night, but my girlfriend doesnt't seem to care =/ i started my work out before we were dating but i thought id continue it for her, cause i THOUGHT at least girls like that.
so really, does a guy having 6 pack, and pecks really matter to being flabby or just flat averge skinny.
2007-04-11 07:45:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for all u people who complain about just looks, she started dating me because she thinks im super nice, and how i treat her so well, and about being smart, im on honor roll.....
i dont want her to like me just for this, i just wandering does it make difference.
2007-04-11 08:03:47 · update #1
i like my men to be physically fit - 6 pack, 8 pack... anything but belly, its a huge turn off for me.
i know im shallow... cant help it.
2007-04-11 21:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being jacked is an added benifit to a relationship but not the main concern. For example if you have great abs but dont call her back or pay for dinner, than ehhh. But if you are just normal or slightly skinny but treat her like the best woman in the world, thats much better.
If you were wondering about one night stands, abs are perfect for attracting chicks who dont care about personality or how you treat women in general.
2007-04-11 14:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by fabulous13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, dude. I think u should ask that question to your girlfriend. If she like your 6 pack, keep working out! but if she doesn,t like it for some or other reason, stop your work out.
But I think that any man with a 6 pack and manners is a total HUNK!
2007-04-11 15:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Zabbstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't last - kissin' do! I would much rather have a man who is considerate of my feelings, has a great sense of humor, intellectually stimulating, motivated, and goal-oriented than a guy who looks good in tight fitting jeans or tee-shirt. If looks are all you are about, you need to spend some of that work out time expanding your intellect instead of your physique.
2007-04-11 14:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by TexasDolly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't bother. I wish my husband would but he doesn't feel like his looks matter in our marriage. Funny how looks matter when it comes to their wives, though.
Keep doing your work out - it's good for you and a great stress reliever and maybe the next gf will appreciate. I know I would:)
2007-04-11 14:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care. And personally, I prefer more meat. My husband works out every day but I really dont wnat him to get too hard, I like some meat.
2007-04-11 14:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up son. A 6 pack doesn't mean anything.
Just because you work out it doesn't make you any more of a man.
2007-04-11 14:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by compfreakuk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, as long as my guy is fit enough to go hiking and have steamy sex with me every so often, I am good to go, 6-pack or not.
2007-04-11 14:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesnt matter. some girls dont just go for looks when having a boyfriend. thats just part of the package not all of it
2007-04-11 14:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My husband starting working out and lost his belly and I asked him where did my pillow go?
2007-04-11 15:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋