I think i'm in love. This guy says he likes me, but i'm not sure. This year alone i went out with him 7 times. He's sort of a playa, but i love him the same...what should i do? He likes other girls besides me...i neeed help...what do u think...move on or pursuit him?
2007-04-11 07:14:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear don't get into the heartache. Your just going to be running around and worry about it every night.
He isn't the type to commit and that is what it sound like you want. Don't worry about him and move on to someone who wants what you want.
You can love a player you just want to change a player and a player can't be changed. He will always be with many of woman and till he gets over himself and grows up he isn't the man for you.
Please move on and do yourslef a favor go find a HANDSOME looking man with no commitment Issues and you will be happy in the long run.
2007-04-11 07:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by ina_ivy_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - you only get one chance at life, so make sure that you do it right the first time. Keep in mind that he may be saying the same things to the other girls as well. Sounds like he doesn't want the committment, just wants to have the girls around to play whenever he wants.
2007-04-11 14:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by KD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should moveon. You deserve to be with a guy who loves you. He doesnt love you, cause if he did he wouldnt make it so obvious be is in love with other girls or that he likes them. You shouldnt be with a playa cuz they only bring in tons of trouble and drama. But its your decision, if you truly want to be with him the go ahead.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-11 14:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO move on , don't pursue him you will only end up getting hurt. Once a playa always a playa!!
2007-04-11 14:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a playa he's not willing to give all of his attention. you have to play the game he plays (just don't be a slut) be the total opposite of what all the other females in his life then you will stand out. if you are not #1 in his life don't make him #1 in yours the game is cold but It's fair
2007-04-11 14:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it the way it is now. Have your fun bout don't get all caught up in him. Maybe he's not fully mature enough to handle one girl. You don't want to hurt yourself putting yourself out there just to be "played".
And the person above is right, you can't possible know what love is after only 7 dates.
2007-04-11 14:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see how serious he is about a relationship, or just casually dating. If you don't think he' serious, then I wouldn't pursue it any more than needed. But the only thing I ask of you, is to not drive the pressure up on him, because that's one surefire way to drive him away and want nothing to do with you.
2007-04-11 14:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl i just got out of the same kind of relationship move on your be much happier i did and i am i love the guy I'm with now trust me though girl you think your in love but soon enough it will fall apart move on
2007-04-11 14:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, why try and pursue something with someone who is a "playa" as you call it, it's a waste of your time and you're only asking for heartbreak...
2007-04-11 14:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by TheBeautifulMess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! if this guy likes other girls then you have no reason to "love" him. you should find someone that feels the same way about yuo that you feel about him.
2007-04-11 14:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by sophia bush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋