My friend (Let's nickname her Sally) is kinda of getting me angry. She is no longer happy because she gets hardly any sleep, and her dad thinks she is insane or something, which is ridiculous. Also, she wears clogs or heels on gym days on purpose to skip and leaves me, but today she got upset with me when i had a note because i was sick. Also, I ask her to come with me for remediation, and she says no even though i go with her. Also, when she is talking to me, if she sees one of her other friends (who I don't care for) she runs off with them, and doesn't pay attention to me. When I show her a picture or something, she always says "You idiot" as a joke, but it still hurts. I really don't want to leave her, because I have very few friends, but is she a good friend or what? I don't want to be friends with someone who is using me or something.
2007-04-11 06:28:41 · 6 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
What does this question have to do with cancer?
Since our son was diagnosed with a rare cancer we have learned to put our complaints against people away. There are more important things in life. Forgive her.
2007-04-11 08:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not and should not have her as a friend. She is not good for you. Better to have no one. Keep your standards for friends high and you will never regret it. Even though you may feel lonely or awkward in school, thats no reason to settle for people like her. You could get into a lot of trouble hanging with her. Focus on your classes and getting the best grades you can.
2007-04-11 14:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the examples you've given, I would think she's not a true friend. If the good outweighs the bad, however, maybe she is and just was having a bad day. Only you can really decide if she is a friend or a user.
2007-04-11 13:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by suzieq_64093 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think shes a friend at all. try going out and meeting new people with the same interest as you to be friends with. you seem like a nice person and you don't deserve to be friends with someone who doesn't appreciate you and the things you do for them. i know it'll probably be hard for you to break friendship with her since you seem to care alot about her but things will get better once you meet other people who'll care for you just the same.
2007-04-11 13:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a ***** sorry to say... i was like that for a while (like you) my friend wouldn't care so much about me and i'd stay like a loner when she didn't feel like hanging out. i know how you feel. i say dump her... i know you don't have many friends and i understand but she is treating you like dirt! you should try talking more to your other friends or try to make new ones... i know its hard but TRUST me this will pass. after that girl was being a ***** a decided to go with a friend who i hardly even talk to, to lunch and i went with her and her other friends and guess what? since that day i wasn't alone anymore they became my closest friends.. till this day (8 years later) one of them is still my best friend!! so keep your head up it will be ok! :) good luck
2007-04-11 13:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think "Sally" is trying to sever ties with you. It sounds to me like she is purposely trying to avoid you in order to put an end to your friendship. I know it's hard, but you need to distance yourself from her and go find some new friends. Sorry.
2007-04-11 13:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋