Ok , I know am gonna get some sticks for this.I am black but I hate black Girls....why is that so?

Question

Ok, I dont hate them ,I dislike the way a lot of them disrespect thier fellow blackmen and would not give a brotha whose got his head screwed on a chance, but they would rather give the ghetto ,hip hop dude whose got money by doing crazy stuff.......of, its payer hatting and am Guilty

Ok hands up , its playa hatting right????

Answer 1

This is normal to like something that is a little different like culture and color.I like black girls ten times better than i do white girls.I dont no man.Something about it just turns me on

Answer 2

do you honestly " hate" them? Hate is a very strong and hurtful word hon.

like most ppl have said on here..It is probably the stereotypical way african american women are portrayed in movies and sometimes in real life.

but guess what? even caucasion women and such arent always that great either. And yes i am white and saying this.

Even so it is a matter of attraction and opinion.

I once asked a friend of mine a long time ago If i was not attracted to african american men did that make me racist....She asked me if I would be friends with one. I said yes. She said it didnt make me racist. She was african american and admitted she had no attraction to white men.

so rethink ur " hate"


also if ur attracted to white girls because you think they wont tell ur butt off or defend themselves or whatever..well i cant say for anyone else..myself though? hit me? you better knock me out and then leave...coz if you dont..I will come after you....Ah but oh well...dont think about that. have a nice day!

also i have a bad attitude and a mouth that would make a sailor blush when i get angry.

Answer 3

I don't think it's black girls that you hate, I think you hate the stereotypes that you have been fed by society about black women. Which you feel turned you off from them, which in actuality turned you off from yourself. I don't think you even hate yourself, in all honesty I think that you hate how society sees us (I'm guessing your in high school or younger) which is common in your age group. When I was young like in high school and junior high, I didn't like being around black girls either, all my friends were white even my boyfriend. I didn't like how loud they were, or opinionated or how they threw themselves at men. As I grew older and looked at my white friends I saw them doing the same thing my black peers were doing I just overlooked it because they were white. I over looked it because I too was raised with "If your white your right" mentality. What I came to realize was that I am human and so is every other woman on the face of this earth and we all have stregnths and weaknesses. I have never been loud, used a quantative amount of slang or curse words, and I'm not promiscuous. These are the stereotypes that I was fed about black women growing up, which made me hate black women, even though I am one. I realized that I was not that stereotype which meant that not all black women are like that and that not "all women" are like anything except strong, long-suffering and absolutely beautiful. My advice to you is to spend more time getting to know yourself, finding, seeing the value and beauty in you. When you do what I suggest you will see that value in beauty not only in yourself but other black women and that will later be extended to women as a whole regardless of race.

PS. Let me tell you something about hate that my grandma told me “Most of the people you hate, don’t know you hate them and those that do, don’t care!”

Also you attract what you ARE or what you think. If you think black women are bad all you meet is bad black women. If you think there are some good black women then you will meet some. The mind is a very powerful tool. Feel free to visit my 360 site we can chat further if you join.

Answer 4

Saying that you hate a certain color of women is kind of a silly statement, isn't it? One group of people don't all fit in the same box. You are probably basing your feelings on the whole group of girls, because of only the black girls that you know.
The best thing you can do is get out there and meet a lot of different black girls from all types of backgrounds. They are as diverse as the stars in the sky. Everyone is different in there own unique way.

If you only knew Michael Jackson ....would it be smart to say all black males are weird?

If you only knew Bill Gates...... would it be smart to say all white men are rich?

If you only knew Britney Spears..... would it be smart to say all white girls are messed up?

If you only knew Oprah Winfrey..... would it be smart to say all black women are caring, loving and giving?

Of course not!

Don't put people in a box. That is dangerous. Beside you are cutting yourself off from meeting some amazing people.

Answer 5

This question is very disappointing.
As black people we are often confronted by sweeping generalisations. All of our men are criminals, all of our women sex craved and bad mothers and all our children are bad mannered and dangerous.
For you as a black man to start this question is truly hurtful - to open up the floodgates for more insults towards black women. What are you hoping to gain?
In answer to your question, I assume your mother has something to do with it. As a black women, she raised and cared for you but now you hate black women.....she must have done a terrible job and left you feeling that you want the complete opposite.

Answer 6

I dont think you hate them, I think you do not like the TYPE of black girls you have met. I think you need to look in a different circle. Unfortunately, some of our young sistas are having attitude problems right now and frankly they are emulating their mothers, aunts and older sisters who treat their men the same way.

It's not you -- its them. At least you are giving them a chance. try going outside of the circle you are accustomed to.

Good Luck and Stay Black!

Answer 7

"Hate" is a strong word. Maybe you should just grow up and stay away from Black women. I don't date Black men, and I'm happy. Why is it OK to hate Black women? If I posted about hating Black men, I'd get attacks from all angles. F**k off.

Answer 8

I gotta tell you man it's not just Black chicks. ALL well ok not all but most females are like that. GHETTO *****'s want nothing but drugs and money, you should try LOOKING elsewhere.

Answer 9

You should be ashamed of yourself for making such a statement.Get yourself bleached then! If you show some respect to your fellow, you get respect in return.You are not proud of your heritage.
I am proud of my color.I am proud am black and beautiful.Some wish they have my colour.

Answer 10

I think you like a certain type of girl and you have not met a black girl that meets your expectations .. you are looking in the wrong places...