ok this is a copy of what i did last time i 1st thought this guy was a bit olda than mi but he htought i was too young i textd him yesturday saying> BABY THE THING IS WE SHOULDN'T BE HAS CLOSE HAS WE ARE BECOUSE I HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU AND EVERYTIME I TALK TO YOU MY FEELINGS FOR YOU INCREASE I REGREAT SAYING THIS TO YOU BIT I CANT HELP MY SELF TAKE CARE XXMILENAX he havent talkd to me yet and i been trying to make him talk to me but nothing yet i was talking to ma friend and he said that this guy likes me to but then the connection fell and he hangd up what shall i do please help me!!!!
2007-04-11 02:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by Milena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bide your time a bit, relax some. Either he's gone stupid and feeding you a line - in which case you can just write him off and he does not know what he's missing, or if he really does feel something so great he will realize how empty his life is without you enforcing those feelings. And he'll come back.
Either way, relax, step back, and think.
2007-04-11 02:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Justin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, perhaps he took your advice and since he had the same feelings for you, decided not to be too close to a youngster or you and he may both give in to the temptation, which he might be considering improper due to the age difference. The best way to find out whether he really wants to continue the relationship is to make a sad, gloomy face and look as depressed as possible, which probably you already are, and ask him, "Can we talk?" straight to him. No SMSing, calling on phone, IMing or mailing can be as good as asking straight to his face. His response and his expressions can guide you better what to do next. If he walks away and ignores you, let him go. But if he starts conversing to you, do not extend the gloominess like a rubber and be thankful for his gesture.
2007-04-11 02:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kdn what to tell u. He might like u but feel uncomfortable about the situation. Give him some time. Time is the best in this situation. I had the same thing happen to me. I gave her some time and then called her. I found out she didnt feel the same bout me. But I did find out. It took some time.
2007-04-11 02:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him you have feelings for him and then you tell him we can't be that close. You think the age difference is too great. So, you try to tell him it ain't gonna work but you are concerned that he hasn't talked to you yet. I think you are the one that needs to make up your mind. If you want him, go to him and talk to him about how you feel and your concerns of the age difference. If you don't think its going to work then let it go once and for all.
2007-04-11 02:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Puleeeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hey its tough luck falling for older guys...me too
if u really want to talk to him instead of text call him and ask him about the whole thing or text him again. im not the expert here but yeah good luck make the right choice :-)
2007-04-11 02:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think that things are going to fast and then you leave him that it sounds like your falling for him and he doesn't want more out of the relationship. Just let him go, if he wants you he'll come back.
2007-04-11 02:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all i wouldent call him baby lol. tell him or text him and say i understand you think im a little to yong but that shouldent matter when i like you the way i like you. i like you and i just wish we could mabye talk for just a bit to get to know each other. mabye you just never know but you might like me alot to mabye even has much has i like you. thats what should really count.
thats what you should say to him. hope it works!
hope this answers your question
2007-04-11 02:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mark ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have scared him by divulging too much too soon. The only thing you should do is backing off and hope he comes around and answers you
2007-04-11 02:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you phone the guy? Then you can tell him how you feel. Or try going to his house! Its always to say something in person!
2007-04-11 02:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Nadz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up...n tok 2 him...tell him dat u dint wanna b mean n all...u luv him n dont let ego come in betwn...tz normal xplain it 2 him n if possible sort out things face 2 face dat works out better...b nice 2 him if u really luv him...show ur feelings 4 him he'll get 2 noe...gud luck...tc
2007-04-11 02:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by !~preteesha~! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋