my ex cheated on me with a 14 year old girl and 2 years later got her pregnant. to me thats just really nasty. he's 20 now but was 18 when he first started messing with her. he says its b/c he wasn't happy with what i had to offer. but what would a14 year old girl have on a 18 year old at the time. i'm now 20. she's 16 and the baby is like 4 months old he denies it but its his. i mean why do older guys go for younger girls. why can't they stay with there own age group?
2007-04-11 02:24:55 · 26 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*A lot of the time older guys find younger girls attractive because they are "untouched" and well...(for some) virgins. Which in regards to what another user had said in an earlier comment on here...they're "tight" and for whatever reason, that excites them?!*
-For instance I am 21 but I look like I am 16-17...and a lot of older guys approach me, and some even tell me they'd like to see me in a school girl outfit because I look so young...and it would be "sexy"?? Why? I don't really know? It's weird.
**Anyways...generally that is why...because it's a weird fantasy some guys have. And they get off on it. As for your b/f or ex boyfriend, well he got off on it too...and now he's paying the price, and so is that girl he did it with.
~But there is a nice guy out there for you, and you deserve to be treated a hell of a lot better than that guy treated you. And you sound like you had good intentions in your relationship, and you are a nice person...so I'm sure you will not have a problem finding someone else. :):)
2007-04-11 04:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like younger girls because they are more willing to give into thing because they are not old enough to know better from a guy being a dog! Basically a 14 year old girl is like cool I have an 18 year old Boyfriend, The older boyfriend feels he can control the younger girls and get them to do what ever they want them to do! Usually around 14 they are young and have young bodies meaning skinny and they start developing boobs and they have the nice little butts which could have been attractive to an older man ... Why I don't know. Also some younger girls may look older or maybe she lied about her age. Hope this helped
2007-04-11 02:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by cbella06 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hot 20 Year Old Girls
2016-11-07 01:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes it is . I found that when i was 14 i started finding older men attractive to. I lost every single interest in any guys at my school. Mostly, the reason younger girls find older men attractive is because of the girls maturity and they want to find that in a companion. && trust me the boys at your school are not mature. In fact i'm only 16 and i have a boyfriend of 1year and 4months (hes 20) . This doesnt mean go find a 30 year old man. Just know that it is normal for some girls to like older men
2016-03-18 07:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its different for everybody but at that age he might not have matured and still found them attractive 18 is still young so the 4 year age gap isn't so big as its a maturity thing it would be a whole different story if he was say 21 and still attracted to girls of that age.
2007-04-11 02:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by NeilK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys go for younger girls simply because they can. they have more experience than them so it's easy to manipulate and use them. it's not that they are more attractive they are more nieve. just like older men in there 30's and 40's cheat on their wives with 20 year olds. they are much more experienced and know just what to do and say to get what they want. and since the girl is younger they will go through greater lengths to please them and do what they want. girls their own age are wise the their games and want a more equal relationship. younger girls find older guys more attractive because they are more mature then guys their age and then they think they are special because and older guy likes them. that's just like in highschool all the senior guys always went for the freshman girls because those girls weren't aware of their reputations yet and didn't know their games.
2007-04-11 02:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds cliche' but men are 3 years behind us in maturity up until 26 and then they want older women. And as far as what she can offer him is the ability to be so young and naive she'll listen to just about anything he says, which is something you wont do(because you have sense). But to make you feel better theres 25 yr old thats waiting for someone like you right now
2007-04-11 03:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the guys you're talking about are in the same age group as the girls mentally. Also, girls who are older than 14-16 tend to be smarter and not fall for their crap, while younger girls tend to be more naive and flattered an older guy is interested in them. Thats a horrible situation to be in...just be glad u got rid of him!
2007-04-11 02:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im 18 and find a 13 year old attractive cos she is nice and has nice figure what do I do
2014-03-12 12:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is because guy are more immature. It's not their fault entierly. Girls mature faster. They get their pueberty 2-4 years before a guy does. This is why most girls like older guys because the guys are at the girl's maturity level.
2007-04-11 02:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋