i adore my nephew and have this strange urge to have a baby,but i cant support one! i'm still in school anyway and plan tohave children in like ten years time. i feel jelous at times when he likes someone more than me,(his grandparents,parents and one of my sisters) whats brings this about?
2007-04-11 02:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by ms_tarryfic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it is just an instinct...and being that you love him so much it is okay to feel that way. I am glad that you are in school and want to wait until you are out to have children....That is a smart! idea. If you wait until you can afford children you will never have them! Children are not affordable. Your LOVE supplies the means for taking care of them. They are expensive but they are the best blessing in the world! God will help you provide for them. Through God all things are possible. Good Luck!
2007-04-11 02:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Amber G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. Your body is "ready" to have a child. It's natures way of continueing the population. Physically your system is giving you the green light. It's a shows maturity that your keeping the long term goals and education needs at the front of your thoughts. Those are very important.
Now the green monster feelings are normal when you love someone. It's a beautiful relationship when an Aunt or Uncle have such strong feelings for a neice or nephew. It does take a village to raise a child and your part of this childs village. Enjoy it, spend time with him and make the choice to be a good role model for him, and yes thats important for young children too.
An example of that is my youngest brother. He is in his 20's, unmarried and no children. Atleast once a month he rounds up all his nephews and spends the day with them. Fishing, building bird houses or any number of things. But the activity is not important it's the conversation and the time spent that is. He spends time with the neices as well but he's trying to built an "open bridge" with the boys.
2007-04-11 02:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by mommyof2greatkids 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a woman, and of age physically, it's a natural reaction. It's OK that you feel jealous about other people having their own relationship with him, as long as you recognize it and don't act like a jerk and try to make them stop. It happens all the time, that is why you see sisters end up with kids all right in a row, or teenagers getting pregnant after their friends have had babies.
Try to spend all that baby craving energy on your nephew, or other children if you can, to distract you from wanting your own until it's a better time for you to have one.
2007-04-11 02:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal, you are just a typical woman, you may have heard the term 'feeling broody', well that is what you are feeling and it will pass, just stick to your plan and have your kids when you are ready.
2007-04-11 02:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very understandable and very normal.. You will feel jealous. That's OK.. You can have your own kids when the time is right.
2007-04-11 02:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. It's a girl thing. When we see a baby, or a young child, our instincts tell us to 'mother' it. So when we can't, we automatically want one of our own. I know it's wierd to me too. lol. It's kind of like guys and sex. almost. :)
2007-04-11 02:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you love to be the most loved, and who can love you more than your own child.Thats why you have an urge to have a baby.
2007-04-11 02:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Octavia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
normal
it happens to a lot of us... just wait till you know you CAN afford that baby before having one
2007-04-11 02:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋