i used to like this guy. we slept 2getha last year. wen i askd him out he said no. but we both knew we were just sleeping with each other until i started liking him. nyway had gone 4 holiday 4 few months. wen i got back we were just friends, really close i thought. i still like him a little but ive discovered he's all abot sex. is there ny point being frenzs with him?
p.s dnt go judging me coz i slept with him, i dnt sleep with guys anyhow.
2007-04-11 02:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by sweetness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think you should let go! that gets to show u he's not worth it n u should move on . watch one of this days he'll want u but u woun't want him !
2007-04-11 02:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not judging you but i think that it's OK to be friends with him.But i also think that you made a bad decision to have sex with him,especially since you guys weren't dating or even married.It kind of something you have to expect when you decide to do things as you did.It's just a decision you made and now this is the result of you decision,him saying no to go out with you.I've never been in you situation and you don't have to listen to what I'm saying I'm just giving you advice.But i do have friend that have done the same thing as you and the end result wasn't good so all I'm saying you be careful and make the design that you want and thinks right.
2007-04-11 09:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could try and b real close friends with him and see if he gets the point that way. but if u do keep sleeping with him he wont want to go out with u b/c he has all the benifits of bein with u without the commitment... or u could just not talk to him but let him kno ur still out there... like if u go to school together and u see him alot just let him kno ur having fun and ur great without him and he might really start to like u... ive done both of these before and so i understand what ur goin through
2007-04-11 09:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that! Do not be his friend with benefits or his back-up *****! You are better than that. I know how you feel and it hurts. You deserve better than that. Think about all those women he is sleeping with and think about all those diseases you could get. Even if you practice safe sex, you can still catch some diseases like Herpes!!!!
Good Luck
2007-04-11 09:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by larkin_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't confuse the two. if you know he is all about the sex then it is not going to be a good situation and you will get hurt. By the way he has responded he is definitely letting you know what he is looking for and all that he want from you. If that is all you want from him them so be it but you will be playing with your own emotions. Don't try to make the situation something it's not
2007-04-11 09:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel no reason for you and him to be enemies, but also no reason to be a friend to him either. He was only out to have sex with you and displayed no other interest in you than for that. For this, it would be to your best interest if you did not waste any or your time on him. Of course when you ever run into him, greet him and then just move on. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-11 09:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in this girl for the fun of it. You said it yourself "you slept with each other until you started liking him". You still want him for the same reason so go for it...If you have the sausage for free, why buy the whole pig??
2007-04-11 09:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cleopatra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are always important in your life as long as they really are friends.
Friends with benefits is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard of...where is the love that goes with sex?
Keeping the person as a friend is up to you...are you friends? do you enjoy each others company and spend friendship time together?
you have to choose...we can't do it for you.
be cool...
2007-04-11 09:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes happy with you as a F buddy . Go find yourself a true love and stop sleeping around just for fun !
2007-04-11 09:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the milk is free no need to buy the cow
2007-04-11 09:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋