Me and flatmate/boyfriend split up 2 days ago (he dumped me!). I pretended to be ok with it. Today i sent a text to a friends telling her that he dumped me and I was devastated but of-course i accidently sent it to ex-boyfriend. After i stopped banging my head against the wall I sent him another text expalining that the previous text hadn't been for him and that obviously he already knew that he'd dumped me. His reply was 'X'. Just that nothing else. What the hell is that? A pity kiss? Please explain. Also how shall I act when he comes home later?
2007-04-11 01:33:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a tricky one!!! I done the same before lots of times and like you banged my head of the walls. In your situation: play it cool. Go and have a bath and relax before he comes in as he doesn't need to know that you were banging your head of the walls. The X possibly means that he maybe only NOW realised how much you really like him (and maybe he does feel the same for you after all?!). He didn't want to say anything else, just wanted you to know that he accepted your txt. And he is cool with it. Just wait and see. Don't show him that you are angry with yourself about it. Act as if nothing has ever happened when he comes in. He now knows how you feel about him anyway. So let him do the move. Good luck!!
2007-04-11 01:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first two replies below say on the one hand it is over and on the other hand it could be very much on....useful eh?!
Basically....think about it from your persepctive and the situation that his behaviour has left you in. The trust [if it hadn't already gone before] must have gone now with the way he can treat you and the things he can say to you. Even if you were to get back together the ideal of a perfect relationship has gone and the 'initial split up' would always be in the back of your mind...
Count yourself lucky...however much it might hurt...that you have found out now that he is not going to be the one and start thinking postively about the future you are going to have away from him...
Although difficult.....one door closes and another opens....whether that be a new relationship in time...or simply having some you time to do what you want rather than having someone else always to answer to......you know you deserve that.
Good luck.
2007-04-11 01:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can happen...you explained to him it was meant for someone else........to just reply "x".......i have no idea what he was thinking. You could take it as a Kiss* or as a "delete" sign=meaning...he doesn't care....and it's done with "x". When he comes home....see how he starts off the conversation.........you can always ask what did u mean by "x"??? see what he has to say~ Did he even give you a reason why you two have split?? I would ask that question to. What do you have to lose?? Nothing* He's already said it's over between the two of you but at least you can hopefully have closure* GoodLucK*
2007-04-11 01:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..don't worry too much about it, you're not the first person to accidentally send a text to the wrong person..
It usually happens when you think about someone a lot..happened to me this morn, accidentally sent a text to my bf which was meant for a friend - he's away on business so he's in the back of my mind, every minute of every day..
In my opinion the 'X' means he understands and will not make a bid deal out of nothing/an accident. I think you should find yourself a new flat or a new flatmate..
Good luck..
2007-04-11 01:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lying to us and yourself if you are telling us that you "accidently" sent it to the wrong person. im sorry that is crap you and i both know that you sent it to him intentionally. i know because i have used this trick before along with many other girls im sure. but anyway thats not what this is about. what this is about is the fact that you need to communicate with him, pretending will only get you so far and maybe the reason for the break up with him in the first place, so my love you need to sit down and figure out how you really feel and where you want this relationship to go THEN sit down and tell him from the bottom of your heart and hopefully you guys can sort something out.
2007-04-11 01:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 10:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like nothing has happened, he knows your feelings from the accidential text, so it's down to him to make the move, also he dumped you. Perhaps not the best idea to go out with a flatmate cause when you split you have to see them all the time. I would make arrangements to move out.
2007-04-11 02:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May i direct you to this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hnybny5WuwM , he starts singing it about a minute in and it surely is the greatest ever song about text messaging. I feel your pain. That 'X' is a pity 'X' i'm afraid, and it's also a bit pig-headed by this guy, he knows how important he was to you. When he gets back be out-he won't expect that-, or just be normal with him. Don't put on a 'I'm fine and everything's a-okay' front cos it'll just hurt more later if you want to cry at him then do that, if you want to shout at him then do that too, if you want to piss him off then do that as well.
2007-04-11 01:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Hugh M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was an honest mistake so don't be afraid to see him now, just act normal around him.
If he asks you about it just laugh it off and tell him it was an accident and if he keeps going on about it tell him not to get his knickers in a twist and to stop dwelling on it.
I know you are devastated about this babe but he does not need to know that so all you can do is laugh it off and try to be as calm as possible around him until you can move on.
Good luck xxx
2007-04-11 02:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all " GROUND OPEN UP AND SWALLOW ME"
second he knows he was about him and he just sent x to save you from further embrassment! He probably already knows your devasted anyway! When he comes round just act normal ( he will make him feel worse) and whatever you do DONT CRY!
I know its sounds cold but if you are wanting to appear cool about it then try your best not to!
All the best x
2007-04-11 01:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by dollymixture 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋