What is love? Can anyone begin hating someone whom they love most?

Question

I am a natural observant.
Observation analysis reasoning is natural to me.
I find the life not any mysterious like many others do, I find it mystic.
I wish the best of everything to all the living kind.

Answer 1

There is a very fine line between Love and Hate.

Answer 2

What Is Love?
- Dr. Vijai S. Shankar

One must understand whether "what is love" can be a question which can be answered? Love cannot be a question. For, if it is a question then an answer should be there. If the answer is there, where is it? This question is ancient and an answer should have been found by now! If the answer has been found, the question would have disappeared.

But the question still remains, meaning the answer has not been found. If it has not been found as yet, then what is the certainty that it will be found? Maybe the mind can never find the answer! A single answer, which will please all minds, is not possible for each mind has its own ideas of love. Hence a universal answer is an illusion.

Individual answers are there for love and for this very reason there are arguments about love for each mind will contradict the answer of another mind. This contradiction is normal for each mind lives in a different point in time. Hence "what is love" is an illusionary question, which has no answer!

"To describe love is very difficult, for the same reason that words cannot fully describe the flavor of an orange. You have to taste the fruit to know its flavor. So with love."

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.

Love is letting your partner have the TV remote for 30 days!

To summarize, Love has no meaning other than the meaning "we" give it.

Can anyone begin hating someone whom they love most?

Hatred is only a feeling, albeit a very strong and assertive one. Like any other feeling, it is a sign of our vitality.Like any other feeling, this can recede and fade away once we have lived it through.

"The best thing is not to hate anyone, only to love. That is the only way out of it. As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you have gotten rid of them. Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.

Hatred ever kills, love never dies. Such is the vast difference between the two. What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred.

Answer 3

Erm... okay, in your case english obviously isn't your native language so I'll lay off, but you should work on your parts of speach... Just for your own benefit, you get a corrected version::
"I am naturally observant.
Analytical reasoning based on observations is natural to me.
I find not to be mysterious like many others do, I find it mystical.
I wish the best for all living things"

Now, as to the question, (though I'm not sure what the expansion had to do with it), no, I don't believe anyone can hate the one they love the most. I believe it's a capability of many, but some lack that blessing (this isn't to say they can't feel anger at or not want to be around this person though).

Answer 4

I think there are two kind of love. One is conditional where conditions are placed upon those we choose to love. The other is unconditional where we love regardless of what they do or say. People are put into one of the categories for different reasons and to each their own.

Now hate I don't think really is hate but a great deal of pain. When you meet that someone and fall in love you never imagine hating them ever. If you are lucky even if it ends you don't hate them. But for some it is easier of the emotions to deal with rather then the pain of losing what they thought was so special to them. Suddenly they find despising what they once cared for easy.

There are other reasons love turns to hate. I am sure almost as many as there people or hearts to break. That is what I have learned from my own life.

Answer 5

Dear you, it sure is possible for those who don't totally grasp the meaning of love as described here at
1 Corinthians 13:4-7...
That is to say it might look or feel like hate but it's usually only temporary as it's probably something done or said that was hated, and not the person... love covers a multitude of sins and forgiveness is so good for the soul.... if a person can't forgive another, it's usually that this person has a hold on them and they are sort of stuck on something...

Answer 6

For my opinion, Love has 3 types the
1)Selfish Love – This can occur when all you can see is you needs. “I love because I need you”
2) Conditional Love – Comes Commitment and all the responsibilities that makes the relationship work. “I need you because I love you”
3) Unconditional Love – this is the worse part. The person doesn’t care if they are hurt. All that matters to them is to make the person they love happy. “If you love someone set it free. If it comes back to you, its yours but if it doesn’t it was never meant to be.”


A person begins to hate the one they love if they have been hurt it’s a natural thing because we all have emotions. Just like if you kicked a dog it will attack you. This kind of emotion will respond differently because of the different phases of hurt. Some are suicidal, seek revenge, and so on….

One thing is what I’ve learned as long as you are affected to the person you still love him/her.

If you wanna love get used to be hurt. That’s life.

Answer 7

I think there are things that I dislike about the person that I love the most. however, I love this person for who he is, I accept him for who he is, and I make a conscious effort to not judge him or try to change him.

These things that I dislike are just quirky little habits....you know, the things that get to you when you live with someone for so long (we're going on 10 years). I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world though. Couldn't imagine life without him and the little things about him that drive me nuts!

Answer 8

Love is an emotional response to some stimuli
Hate " " " " " " "

The unusual response of love in the negative is hate

there is a very narrow line that separates the two.

Love--the positive emotion
hate--the negative emotion

Answer 9

Love and hate are on the same spectral plane, it is only to the matter of degree that change takes place. Just like hot and cold, you know it when you feel it. They are close because they are opposite in polarity, and cannot exist on the physical plane without each other.

Answer 10

You can easily hate those you are typically supposed to love. And, falling in love is an easy thing when you don't really know someone. The magic is when you fall in love with someone you know.