Okay my friend's boyfriend is being selfish and mean to her and he makes up excuses for everything and lied to her majorly but I can't say what that was about. She is thinking about breaking up with him but what do you think she should do?
2007-04-10 17:01:13 · 20 answers · asked by k_fsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just need to talk to him and tell him what she thinks. He will listen and if he does not then thats the problem. If he does not want to hear it, he needs to be cut, fast. The only way you know a guy wants to work things out is if he hears everything you have to say.
2007-04-10 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him around us guys are so extremely confused most likely ur friend is on the jealous side...so he feels the need to lie or bend the truth to keep her from exxagerating and freaking out basically its prob nothing serious he just feels like thats the only way he can do something without basically getting B1TCH3D AT
2007-04-11 00:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is lying, he will continue to lie. Tell her that she is too good to put up with deception in a relationship. There are too many honest guys out there, that will respect her. If she continues this relationship it will hurt worse later when he decides not to tell her the truth again. Best to cut her loses now before the drama really begins.
2007-04-11 00:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. A man who loves a woman is not mean and selfish to the one he loves. It sounds like he is controlling and a lier...maybe even verbally abusive. Leave him
2007-04-11 00:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how serious the relationship is. If they are really close she should try to talk to him. Let him know that she is hurt by his behaviour and she needs to know why it is occuring. She should let him know that if there is something wrong he can rely on her to help him through it.
If they are not so close she should dump the loser for being a toss.
2007-04-11 00:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to hin about it before she does anyhting rash like break up with him. There might be a good explanation.
2007-04-11 00:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by xlilpunkxsktrx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends boyfriend deserves to be dumbed because she doesn't deserve all that crap from him..there are other guys out there that she can find...hes not the only out there..she can get a boyfriend 10 times better than him..
2007-04-11 00:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should put up with boyfriends who are selfish, mean liars.
2007-04-11 00:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she should break up with him and try to move on for her best interest .
2007-04-11 00:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Achilles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with him and date someone who will treat her with the respect she deserves. Why stay with someone who is mean to her?
2007-04-11 00:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋