my wedding isn't for another year and i've already gotten everything planned out, including the budget and all we need to do is call a couple places for booking and actually buy everything. and yet i feel like i'm not doing enough. can anyone give me some advice on how to chill out?
2007-04-10 13:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Shadowplay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Try thinking about the marriage, not the wedding celebration. Everyone puts so much focus on the day that the monumental change in their life is overlooked. You sound very organized so nothing to worry about there. Perhaps you need to think about what your fiance wants, talk with him and focus on relationship and that will clear your mind.
2007-04-10 13:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by barthebear 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me! I had a little over two years between proposal and wedding. I immediately jumped in and had everything planned out, complete with spreadsheets!
What you need to remember is that you have a year left. You can delegate! Since you've got your game plan already, assign people jobs that they will be responsible for. Then you can worry about whatever aspect of the wedding you really want to be perfect, whether that be choosing the caterer, the cake, whatever!
Good luck!
2007-04-11 01:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by adribug354 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end planning OR engaged on something FOR some DAYS> only end. Then get your self some espresso or wine, take a seat down such as your helping social gathering and prioritize. there is not any way no longer to be worried or below pressure yet human beings you invite are not to any extent further element of the planning they won't ever comprehend if something does no longer paintings out as planned and at the same time as all said and achieved, no remember what the planning come, you'd be married to the guy you want, and that is better functional than what china you employ or the position "Suzie" sat. Getting all labored up over tulle feels like you want better suggestion from you guy.
2016-11-28 03:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay everything that needs done out on a time line. Just work though one thing at a time. If you look at the big picture, its sooo easy to be overwhelmed. If you just take things one at a time as they come along, then it is so much easier to handle! Make sure that you always take time to relax and to spend a special date night with your fiance!!
2007-04-10 13:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by krystiinkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i got engaged 3 weeks ago and our wedding is in may only 6 weeks away, if i can get it done in this time you will be fine, the best advise i can give you is get others involved in the planning eg, your mum and your brides maids more hands make light work. good luck
2007-04-10 14:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by desiree g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm getting married this Saturday, and my fiance was nervous about just about everything until she decided that as long as the minister, her and I are at the church and we are married by the end of the day, nothing else matters. Hope this helps you.
2007-04-10 16:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine, you have more than enough time.
Just break, make things fun. You will make yourself and everyone else crazy if you stress out about it.
2007-04-10 16:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to think about how your gonna live and how your gonna raise your kids dont worry about the wedding [=
2007-04-10 13:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to plan really well, and make lists.
2007-04-10 19:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋