he's turning 17 in two weeks, i turned 14 in february...
he's AWESOME
we only see eachother once maybe twice on the weekends at practice... He lives about 6 HOURS away...
He has a gf...
He had a crush on me for a couple months b4 he met his gf...
I've had a crush on him since i met him 1 1/2 yrs ago..
it's no longer a crush...
we chat daily online and we tell eachother EVERYTHING...
when we see eachother we both smile then blush...
when we chat we still blush...
what can i do to get him to like me more?
What can i do to forget about him...
i truely love him, and i'm happy he has a gf, i wish them the best of luck
but can anything help?
He's all i think about, at school, night, practice especially...
HELP!
2007-04-10 13:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-04-10 13:33:43 · update #1
if he has a girlfriend there is nothing you should or can do.
sorry. start to help yourself forget about him.
2007-04-10 13:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by sophia bush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did write he has a girlfriend. Dont you value yourself? Why are you persuing him in your thoughts like this. It sounds like an obsession and that means it isn't so much about him but about you. You are focusing on this to the detriment of your whole life which is passing by, not to mention that the age difference is not good and in fact illegal in one year when he is 18. You need a real change in your life and maybe with summer coming up you can travel, take a class, volunteer somewhere, do something entirely different to meet new people. I know you cannot control yourself right now but please trust me that this will pass. You deserve a happy time with a normal relationship and it will happen if you try to move past him by going through the motions of a different way of life.
2007-04-10 20:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo. tough. but u have it good compared 2 me. the guy i like turns 17 in August. Im 2 shy 2 talk 2 him. The good thing is he cant date so i dont have 2 worry about competition. but i am 4 years younger that him. trust me, u have it good. its nice that u have a friendship tho. so if u do hook up, it wont b as akward. GO 4 IT!
2007-04-10 20:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know if there really anything you can do. Just keep on what you are doing. Maybe talk a little to him about how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way. Thats all you really can do.
2007-04-10 20:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 and 14. forget about him. get a hobby join an organization
2007-04-10 20:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
were on line do you talk to him on msn........yes he has a gf but you wish he was with you and not with her ...........yes his 17 and your 14 age dosent matter it just a number.......are you sure he is happy with the gf he is will........because he he was he wouldnt be blush every times he see you or talks to you.......i think he has feelings for you.........i could help you to find out how he feels about you.......i hope i have helped you.....if you need any more advice come to me and ill try my best to help u
2007-04-10 20:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 hours away might as well be a foreign country. Move on immediately. You';ll find another.
2007-04-10 20:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things fall into place with him and his girlfriend and if things don't work out ,then make your move,never interfere because what gos around comes around and no one want to get hurt.
2007-04-10 20:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knows you're crazy about him, and is therefore using you. Hon, I think you should just try and keep it as friends. If he hasn't broken with his gf, he's probably giving her a line of crap as well as you. Don't let him use you. He's got plenty of charm and you've fallen for it.
2007-04-10 20:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋