Now i'm really confused?

Question

Alright so my boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. and during this time period I was still calling him and letting him know how upset it made me. He would never come right put and say he didn't want to have anything to do with me anymore, he just needed time to figure things out. he said something just didn't feel right. So I quit calling and he started calling. He called me last week one day twice and then the next day and every time he just wanted to know how i was and what i was up to. he never said anything about getting together. I never called. But then he waited a day then called me on saturday to say he wasn't gonna call me anymore cause i wasn't calling him. he sounded sad. then we went on to tell each other that we mi8ssed each other and then i asked him to come and see the next night. and he did. Things went well and i was very happy to see him and he was very happy to see me. and he said other things regarding that hes been thinking about me and missed me.
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23 hours ago
and he was very affectionate towards me. it felt like we were back together again. so i just don't know if i just got used or if he really meant it. i know only he knows the answer to this, but i guess my question is do i just flat out ask, or do i just wait it out and keep giving him his space. its not just him now that is confused, he really hurt me and i don't want to start anything up again until he is 100% sure. so do i give space still or do i confront?

Answer 1

This is your life, this is your relationship. For peace of mind for now and into the end of time, don't be scared to ask questions. Like when he said something just didn't feel right, don't let him get away with that. He should explain that to you or not say anything about it. So I'm on confront. Your owed that much, an explanation, or else this guy isn't being fair. Weather its love are not he needs to understand he isn't the only person in this relationship, you need comfort, that only a good reason can give. If he doesn't know the reason, then he has every reason to talk it out with you, thats why your there, so he doesn't have to deal with life alone. If he can't use that, then your going to find yourself getting more hurt and more confused.....