i like her but idk wat other people would think if i started to date her. i have a feeling she likes me too. i wanted to hook up but other people were there and she wanted to. i kind of did but i denied it. i just dont know wat to do
2007-04-10 11:14:28 · 27 answers · asked by mike b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell you something that I've learned about women. Their personality will make them either cuter, or uglier the more time you spend with them. My best friend in high school started dating this really (and I mean really) ugly chick. I could not figure it out. Then he would bring her around when we all went out together, and she started to grow on me. The more I got to know her the more she grew on me, and...... the prettier she got. It wasn't long before I actually got a crush on her, and she was hot. My eyes saw ugly, but my mind saw hot. Soon my mind won over my eyes. They wound up getting married after high school, and at the wedding, I was soooooo jealous. I got over it, but she was the sweetest funniest (without being at all unladylike) girl I have ever met. I married a hottie, and what an ugly *itch she turned out to be.
2007-04-10 11:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
All these other people will not be in the relationship so they do not matter. Beauty is from the inside out, and if they are too shallow to see that then they don't deserve to have an opinion. Why would it matter what other people think. You are a big boy you can make decisions on your own!
2007-04-10 18:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by bar_merch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP MATE!!! If you like her, who gives a rats **** what other people think! You need to stop worrying about other people. YOu might be passing up something wonderful and amazing, the oppurtunity of a lifetime just because a few shallow minded people have an opinion different to yours.
You think she is cute, GO FOR IT!
Hey, you love eating steak but everyone else is a vegetarian.
Do you stop eating steak just to fit in?
2007-04-10 18:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay in the 9th grade I totally missedout on what would have been a great thing because of what the other kids said, I was afraid of being made fun of, kids are mean ya know. thing is that one of the people that made me feel so insacure stepped right in my place after I blew my crush off. Dont trust anyone! just fallow your own mind and heart, you already know what will make you happy, dont give anyone else any power over you!!
2007-04-10 18:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by julie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her to have sex with you, but not be your girlfriend officially or whatever. Try to go to her house alone to have sex with her. Make up reasons why you need to come over to see her later - like after 10 pm - when you really can't go out to eat or the movies or anything - that way nobody will know what you are doing yet you still get to bang her. Don't ever give her your phone number either. Just ask for hers and talk to her online through AIM or myspace or something. Make up an excuse like you are always running out of minutes so you can't give out your number, or you only use disposable phones to avoid running up a high cell phone bill by accident which causes you to change numbers frequently or something, and always be sure to block your number when you call her so she can't find it out. Also I would discourage her from ever coming to your house unannounced - if it's possible I would also recommend you try to not even let her know where you live. If you are in high school, I would recommend finding out her schedule and then walking different ways to your classes to avoid seeing her in the hallways. After you start banging her, if she gets a little bitchy and starts saying you're ashamed to be seen with her in public, ect - all you gotta say is that you don't like people in your business because all they do is make up rumors so you like to keep your private life private or something like that - also tell her that she doesn't know the kinda stuff guys talk about when girls are not around and you don't want your relationship with her in those conversations with your friends because you care about her. Trust me this can work - you can have the best of both worlds - you can bang this broad without any of your boys knowing, you just gotta follow my advice on how to play it. Also, try to avoid being friends with any of her friends - they will agressively hound you about your relationship with her and start to talk about you to their other friends and word will spread about your relationship with her. If any of your boys see her talkin to you and stuff - you can just say she likes you and she's always tryin to get with you, ect - and thats how it will look too so they'll believe you. Good luck son I hope you can pull it off.
-Johnny Common Sense
2007-04-10 18:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Common Sense 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you like this girl, right? and she likes you? but people don't think she's hot? stop caring what other people think! if you think she's pretty, then thats all that matters! some people are too shallow to be able to see real beauty. Ignore what they say and ask her out. dont allow them to get in the way of something which could be fantastic!
good luck
xx
2007-04-10 18:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by ilikeyoursundress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you listenting to what other people are saying?! If you like her and think she is cute, then ask her out and go out with her. Since when do other people rule your love life? Make your own decisions and don't listen to what other people say, they'll just bring you down. It's mean to call people ugly anyways...Don't listen to them.
2007-04-10 18:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, then you're friends should have no say in your feelings. If they can't accept you're opinion, then clearly they don't deserve the title of being your friends. You have the right to be with whoever makes you happy no matter what other people say.
2007-04-10 18:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by p3rfectdaytoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to live life in a way that makes you happy.. your true friends will be happy for you..not judge you. as for what other people think!? who cares!! life is too short to worry about everyone else. go and enjoy your life. if you like her..go for it.. but dont be shallow..there is alot more to a person than just good looks. trust me ...looks dont go very far.
2007-04-10 18:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude! you shouldn't care what other people think!!!! if you think shes cute and like her take the chance before she turns you down. i always look at it, date the person thats inside not the one thats out. you never know she might become a hot girl later on ;) so date her and see what happens!!
TAKE my advice!!
2007-04-10 18:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋