confused!!!!!!?

Question

hi.i have a big problem.i like this kid whoose really cute.i was going to ask him out today but at recess i saw my friend flurting with him.i was SOOOO mad beacause i told her that i liked him,and then she comes up to me like she didnt do enything.PLEASE tell me what to do.i dont want to do enything crazy

in case your wanderig he is 13 so am i

i am so mad that i might do something crazy dont ask

Answer 1

first of all how old are u? u must still be in elementary school if u have recess... if u like him tell him, dont worry about ur friend for now...i mean but u always have to remember...BOYS MAY COME AND GO BUT FRIENDS WILL STAY FOREVER.

so just keep that in mind...but u may want to see how ur friend thinks about the whole u and him thing...if she doesnt like it then leave it alone...even if that means that u will get hurt. Dont worry about it just do what u think is best.

and remember what i said!

Answer 2

Oh, boy, I've been there before!! When I was in high school, my "best friend" totally stole the guy I was crushing on- AT HOMECOMING!!!!! And he was my DATE!!!!! It's been almost 15 years now and I still can't get over it...

Anyway, though, here is some advice for you. First of all, get used to girls trying to compete with you for men's affections. Sadly, it is very common for a girl to try to take a guy from her own friend just because she can. Secondly, let me ask you this- was he flirting back when your friend was flirting with him? If so, you don't want him anyway. If not, he's probably not interested in her so it's not even worth the mental anguish to waste another second thinking about it. You should definitely sit your friend down and explain the "friend code" to her, which is: NEVER try to date a person your friend has already expressed an interest in. She may just be a naturally flirtatious person who truly didn't realize that her actions would hurt you. Once you let her know how it made you feel, though, she should back off, if she's a real friend.

Answer 3

Leave her alone, maybe this guy isnt right for you, let her get treated like crap, probably put out to get with him, more than likely that seems to be how some women are these days, you will go through lots of friends before you find a friend who loves ya unconditionally and wont step on your toes for a MAN! Keep your head do the right thing, dont worry about her, you just know now not to trust her it is sign of the future of your friendships, Good luck

Answer 4

Okay first of all....how old are you? Cause if your still young enough to have recess then you dont need to be thinking about that kind of stuff. Second, dont be in such a hurry to grow up, belive me it comes faster than you know and it hits you like a ton of bricks. If you decide not to take my previous advice then id just say, just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel because a friendship is more important than some guy!!!!

Answer 5

If you are still having recess you are probably in elementary school and if you are you shouldn't care about those stupid boys. Never let a guy get in the way of a friendship and how do you know if they were flirting? They could have been talking about you and how he should ask you out if kids your age ore dating these days. Don't sweat it! You will find other guys who are way cuter and wont flirt with your friends.

Answer 6

The female species is complicated and I bet she did this for the sole purpose of rubbing it in your nose. It's a competition thing. Your friend was in the wrong, call her on it. If she keeps it up, get rid of her. There's too many good friends to be made that you don't have room for people like that. As for the guy, be straight up and be his friend. Get to know him, who knows he may be hott but really shallow and wasn't worth the hassle.

Answer 7

Sis,love & money are most cause of loosing a friendship.If she's really your friend talk to her privately,ask each others feelings towards this issue.try to resolved what's best for both of you, Both of you cant have both of this things,1 will gain the other will be hurt.Try to put in your mind,its easier to find love rather than to find a true friend.

Answer 8

Calm down...and stop being so insecure and just ask him out or something. Oh and get a new best friend

Answer 9

recess??? u are too young to have a bf...however if u really really want one...go ask him out next time u see him....if he ahs a gf then the "so-called" friend of yurs...when she goes and flirts with him he will go away or bette ryet just be hangin out with u cuz he wud be yur bf....SHE ISNT YUR FRIEND friends dont flirt with their friends hopefuls...gain him dump her

Answer 10

Just cos you think hes cute doesnt mean you should go for him, get to know him a little. talk to your friend about it. Maybe your guy likes your friend!