2007-04-10 10:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will be difficult. The truth is there is a high chance that a man will cheat in a relationship but again it is only a high chance, it is not a certainty. I am a man and I know that we can be difficult to trust or to even be with but there are those who can be trusted completely.
I am sorry to hear that you have been deceived many times over but please do not rule out all men because of the actions of those few who couldn't control themselves or were just plain jerks. I wish that you find a person who will treat you right and not deceive you. It will be a long and hard road to begin to trust again but sometimes it's better to walk on it with someone beside you. I wish you the best.
2007-04-10 10:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I can sympathize with you on this. It really sucks too. I think that the best thing you can do is get to know them well before jumping into a relationship. Trust isn't something that should be given blindly, it is earned. As you learn as much as you can about a person, you will be able to know if you can trust them. I have dated so many bait-and-switch guys and I think it is smart to take it slow when you are learning to trust someone again.
I think that you still have to be careful for those wolves in sheep's clothing. They can be really sweet and innocent, but eventually you can find them out. I think part of trusting men is learning to ask the right questions. Find out as much as you can about them.
Also realize that there are a lot of great guys out there too. Keep your eyes open for them and try to realize that trust can be built and it is a necessary ingredient in a healthy relationship.
2007-04-10 18:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why think about men in a single catorgory? Not everyone is the same. If you had gotten alot of jerk men, there is still good men out there.. just gotta find them. In my school, its really a druggie school and there is literally no good people besides myself and a few select.. I tell ya, although it seems like there is no good date, There is! :) Just look for a decent guy, spend time with him before dating to see if he's really a nice guy, or better yet, a gentleman.
2007-04-10 18:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by rich11399 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep the past where it belongs when approaching a new relationship------->in the past. Far to many women in this world dwell on the past. Men can sense insecurity immediately, and it is a major turnoff!!!!
2007-04-10 18:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by FarOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know as hard as it seems you cant judge every man the same. you have to get out there and live your life. take your time be friends first. then if it goes that way and the time is right take it. don't cut yourself short just cause other men are not right.
2007-04-10 18:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by 2failnotaoption 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time for healing and self-evaluation before you become involved in another relationship. Then take it slow and learn about the other person before you commit your heart.
2007-04-10 17:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph have no ideal to be honest but hopefully you find someone like me that actually cares regardless of what my about me section says.Best of luck though
2007-04-10 17:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know the man well enough before you begin a relationship.
Stop dating playboys...
2007-04-10 17:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember all people are not alike. Good outweighs the bad!
2007-04-10 17:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋