I really like this guy at school, and I know he likes me too...but both of us are extremely shy towards one another, I was considering to just wing it and go talk to him...But I can't help but feel, "why do I need to start the conversation? I'm the girl!?" Should I go talk to him, should I wait? If I go talk to him, what should I talk about? I don't want to sound random..you know? please help!! Thanks!
2007-04-10 10:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by ashkb93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should talk to him! if he hasn't made a move yet, maybe he's waiting for u. even if he isn't waiting for u, u should still make the first move. maybe after u do, he'll realize how much he actually likes u!
talk about sports or music, something new at school. make sure he knows wat ur talking about, if he doesnt, then the convo is going nowhere. good luck!
2007-04-10 10:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by nyc baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. it's amazing how i thought you were talking about the situation i'm in for a second. lol. ummm, you need to talk to him!!!! Don't make the mistake i did and wait forever!!! (i spoke to him yesterday, but before that it was SIX MONTHS since the last time i spoke to him!!!) You soooo need to talk to him. there's nothing wrong with the girl making the first move (I know this, but still am scared of talking). just try to find something on the internet so that you know what to say if you have to fill an akward silence!!!! You can do it!!!! I know you can!!!
2007-04-13 13:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by 569™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a simple "hello" will do just fine. I know it sucks when you have to make the first move, but if you really want to get things going, you'll have to do it because he's obviously not picking up the slack. Just go up to him and say "How is your day going? Really? Do you want to hang out after school?" I mean the hard part is over because you already know he likes you!
2007-04-10 10:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should only say hi wats up to him if he likes u he'll keep talking to u and eventually he'll ask u out on a date or somethin
hope that helps
2007-04-10 10:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by marcopolo523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW HOW YA FEEL AND IT IS HARD TO MAKE THAT
FIRST MOVE . BUT BUILD UP THE GUT AND WALK OVER TO HIM AND SAY "HEY HOW ARE YOU AND THEN
ASK IF HE WOULD LIKE TO GO AND GET A BITE TO EAT.
IF YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WALKING UP TO HIM
THEN ASK IF HE HAS A PHONE NUMBER YOU CAN CALL HIM @. REMEMBER YOU ARE YOUNG AND ONLY
LIVE ONCE.. LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST........
GOOD LUCK...............
2007-04-10 10:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hesitant about approaching you then he's probably second guessing himself, in which case you will probably have to initiate the conversation.
2007-04-10 10:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by mahakoti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋