Okay I been dating this guy fro 4 months now.Recently I told him I will be dating a second guy since he can't give me the attention I need but that I will still be with him too...Well two days later he suggested we just do business together and only be friends and that things will be okay because I have another guy now. See when I told him I was going to see the other guy he said that was cool. So why all of a sudden he wants us to just be friends and focus more on business. And when we had a meeting the day he told me that. He asked how me and the guy is doing and if i think we will make it. The truth is there is no other guy. I thought it would help him give me more attention but instead the opposite happened. What do I do now?
2007-04-10 10:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by c7c21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg
did your plan just backfire?
why would you do something like that?
if a guy can't give you enough attention
1) you talk to him about it
if it still doesn't work..
2) you dump him first and then go look for another guy who would give you the attention you need.
2007-04-10 10:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by itstoolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him tell him tell him trust me competition is not something to help a relationship. Realize that the time he spends away from you is to secure things between you two because he cares for u. It probably crushed him when you were like well screw you there's someone else. Just tell him. He probably will be upset that you made up a lie and didn't comfront him straight up.
2007-04-10 17:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my perspective if you want more attention ASK FOR IT. don't lie to him and try to make him jealous or what ever it is you are doing. If it is a good relationship things will work out if you just talk to each other :)
2007-04-10 17:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and the games they play...
He is not going to change for you. He is who he is. If he is not giving you the attention you want then accept that and move on.
2007-04-10 17:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you playing games...
He wants you to be happy, and if the other guy (that you claimed) you had give you more then of course he wants you to be happy with him...
If I were you, I'd tell him...
Then of course don't be surprised if he says...well you're playing games...so SEE YA!!!
Then most people wonder why they are alone when playing games...
C'mon
2007-04-10 17:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lesson to learn. You should not have done that.
Try tactfully explaining to him what had happened.
2007-04-10 17:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU JUST BLEW IT YOU BETTER TELL HIM THE TRUTH YOU DON'T PLAY WITH OTHER PEOPLES FELLING HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOU REALLY LIKED SOMEONE AND THAT HAPPENED TO YOU I DON'T THINK YOU WOULD LIKE IT YOU BROKE HIS HEART YOU HAVE ALOT OF EXPLAINING TO TELL HIM SOMETHINGS ARE BETTER NOT SAID
2007-04-10 17:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's interested, so why do you think there's something for you to do?
2007-04-10 17:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies always backfire!!
2007-04-10 17:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋