I see girls everywhere i go that i like,but i dont know how to approach them,or get thier number.so help me please!
2007-04-10 10:09:12 · 22 answers · asked by lil2779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
. most importantly. BE YOURSELF!
get her myspace name.. sometimes talking online is easier than in person.
but i like it when guys are brave and just start up some random convo. its sweet.. and shows they are really interested.
dont seem nervous.. even if you are.. act like youre the junk and if she doesnt like you.. you got plenty other girls waitin on you.
give her your email.. and get hers.
or text her.
but seriously..
be yourself. cause if you make up lies..
the truth will come out sooner or later.
good luck<3<3
2007-04-10 10:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've answered this question so many times... I've included a link below that will give you some great dating advice... It's long, but you should read it.
In brief:
Dating is for getting to know someone. Dating is for getting to know what it is you are looking for in another person. What you are willing and not willing to put up with.
Dating is an experiment.
Dating should be approached as a way to make friends of the opposite sex. You want your future girlfriend/wife/whatever to be your best friend.
Once you stop approaching dating as a make or break situation, you will not worry about being rejected.
If you really like a person, you want them to be happy. Even if that happiness means that you are just friends.
So go out there, make friends. Be happy. And sooner or later you will meet Ms Right.
Good luck.
A~
2007-04-10 10:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a simple solution. Most men have approach anxiety so they end up keeping their distance. You'll need to realize that no matter what she says it doesn't matter. If she reacts with a negative attitude or walks away it is her problem, not yours. Don't put too much into each individual approach. In other words if this one doesn't go well then say to yourself NEXT. Don't try to use pick up lines. Women don't fall for them. Typically it is the confidence it took to approach her that catches her interest. Talk about something going on in the environment around you or something that both of you are interested in. Don't spend more than a few minutes before you move to the next step, asking for her number. Worst case is she has a BF who overhears you and pounds you into a puddle of goo. It happens. Winning the lottery happens too. I should write a book. I didn't even scratch the surface.
2007-04-10 10:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean everywhere that you like? Are these strangers? Or friends? If you like someone you just have to get the courage to walk up and start a conversation. It helps if you know them or are introducted to them by a friend or something. To some girls its akward when a stranger comes up and just talks to you. Just be nice and friendly. Dont be gross or perverted. Coment on your surroundings (the weather if you're outside, the music at a party, etc) I'm sure you'll do fine, just have confidence in yourself.
2007-04-10 10:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to take a few chances, or else you'll be like this for the rest of your life! Just be confident, even though maybe you're really scared inside. Talk to a girl first, get to know her, and become friends with her. Then, ask for her number and hang out with her. What you don't want to do is just ask for a girl's number after five minutes of first meeting her, because then she'll think you're hitting on her. Also, smile at girls a lot. Smile an innocent, shy smile, and look down a little afterwards, and it'll make them think you're cute and shy in a sweet sort of way!
2007-04-10 10:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok here's some choices:
1. you could maybe go up to them and talk to them in a romantic way and ask them for their number once you get them hooked up.
2. Or stay silent and never get their phone number.!!
Tip: Some girls like boys who can step up and ask them out!!
2007-04-10 10:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at them and act friendly... maybe then they'll talk to you... if not then it'll be easier for you to approach them. Eye contact and smiling kinda breaks the ice.
Good luck!
2007-04-10 10:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by mlcjlrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like humor. Be funny, be yourself, and dont be worried or stutter. Start a conversation and bring it up slowly. But dont say, hey babe or something. Some girls hate that.
2007-04-10 10:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engage in a casual conversation with them & be cheerful & quick witted. A soppy chat-up line is NOT the answer.
2007-04-10 10:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi, or whats up. Get to know them more and more. One could end up liking you.
2007-04-10 10:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋