Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months, and we have a good relationship for the most part. But lately we've been having communication issues, and I've been taking them personally.
On Friday he came over and I had the intention of breaking up with him. But I didnt. We watched Hostel. Usually when we "watch a movie" we're all over each other. We didnt try to get in each others pants like usual. We did still make out, but we talked about a lot of stuff and then we were sitting there and we were goofing off. Like I started laughing and I couldnt stop, then we "wrestled" over the remote, my stomache was growling and he was like "Dont make me carry you upstairs and feed you," It was the most fun I've ever had with him, while we were hanging out alone.
After all that I dont want to break up with him. He's actually trying to call me more now.
My question is, is this a good sign for our relationship, that the communication isnt a problem
2007-04-10 10:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by jesssikahhh_x3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If communication is bothering you than just because you had a great night together isn't going to resolve the basic problem. I have the benefit of being older now and looking back, I wish I had been more honest with my boyfriends. Often I would break up with them without letting them know what was bothering me. Six months is often the make or break point in a relationship and I suspect both of you are wondering how much more of an emotional investment you should make and will it be worth it. Ask yourself this; 1. Do you like him as a person. Would you want to hang out with him if he wasn't your boyfriend. 2 Do you share similar goals and have similar backgrounds. 3. Can you depend on him. Does he always followl through on what he says.
2007-04-10 10:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea gurl its a good sign. communication and honesty are the 2 most important keys in a relationship.
2007-04-10 10:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dudette....
Relationships to do not come with instruction booklets. You have to feel your dude out. The key to figure this out is to be open and honest with your dude. So, you really need to be asking him this question instead of society. Feel me sweetheart?
2007-04-10 10:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a bad sign! not enough connection can lead to a bad ending! just hang out with him more. Believe me, Maybe you should try something new. May I suggest whipped cream? lol
2007-04-10 10:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Diana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has its own conflicts, depends on how are you going to solve it.. Thats a good sign...
2007-04-10 10:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i defintly think it is bc he wants to tlk to u and makeout wit u soo if he does tht next time u make the first move.
2007-04-10 10:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you could work this out,give it time
2007-04-10 10:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know
2007-04-10 10:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋