As in, start a relationship? I mean, you can ask "Hey wanna go to the movies Friday night?" to anyone, who's just your friend, and stays your friend. I want to know how you start a relationship. Do I ask, "(Name) will you go out with me?" or "(Name) will you be my girlfriend?" Or is it not even that? And I'm not asking how to start talking to a girl or how to go someplace with a girl that I dont know. The girl I'm after now, I've known for a while and been to places with her before. I want to know how to start a relationship. I mean, how did your relationships start?
2007-04-10 10:05:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't just ask her straight out, "Hey, would you like to go out some time?" From my exp. girls either find this being too aggressive or the guy just being desperate. Tell her you're going to a movie this weekend or something along those lines, and if she would like to come. Make sure you're complimentary of her looks, and just be flirtatious. After you break the walls down a bit by flirting with her, there should be little tension between you two, and you should be able to ask her anything you want. And don't worry, if she already likes you, she will say yes.
2007-04-14 05:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by gren bebop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is take her out somewhere again. Make sure it has a cozy environment nothing to where your not yelling or you can't talk to much. During the normal conversation you say to her that you've been having a lot of fun on all the dates you've gone on, that you really have strong fealings for her and that if she would consider being your girlfriend. If she says yes, well great there you go. If she says no, then tell her that you still have fun with her and don't want to make her uncomfortable, that if she ever changes her mind, you'll be there for her.
2007-04-10 10:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend said he had been talking about liking me so I started thinking about it then mabey 2 days later I was talking on the phone to him and asked him if we go out will we still b friends but that I really liked him and for some reason he thought I was saying no. when my friend asked him about it the next day he said that I rejected him.and then I went up to him grabbed his arm and said "hey dummy that was not a no last night." he said "it wasnt" and I said "no" then after lunch he "officially" asked me "Hey would you like to go out with me?" and thats how my relationship started hope this helps
ps you could also just say I really like you and see what she says then say will you go out with me if well you know she doesnt run away or get a sheepish look on her face about the i like you.
2007-04-10 10:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by island gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is in no way a suggestion, but you asked. My husband was very shy when we were younger. He didn't know how to approach me. His best friend was dating my best friend at the time. His best friend had been talking to him and decided to have my best friend set us up.
If you know her, and you've done things together, than you know she's a nice person or you wouldn't hang out with her. Just tell her you have feelings for her and you'd like to date her. I doubt she needs to be told much if you spend that much time together. Body language says a lot. She probably already suspects your feelings. Maybe she's just waiting for you to make the first move.
2007-04-10 10:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Irish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well naturally and usually men just simply ask, "Do you wanna go out with me?" But my relationships begin differently. I'm not into that type of just ask and that's it...you know what i mean? Start flirting with her, keep going out places together, the relationship will flourish all on its own..just be patient. If you go with that instead, i believe it will last much longer and happier. :-)
2007-04-10 10:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Samiha♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first be nice dont start the conversation like hey babe or hottie say something like hi (name) do u want to go to the movies on saturday or something like that
2007-04-10 10:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Liz T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very nice to them and make shure you like them and that they like you to.
It's best just to be friends I've found that over time. In the end it's just a broken heart. Don't ruin your love life in the future with this girl. If your older than 16 then you should. Best of luck to you.
2007-04-10 10:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Alayna H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like humor. Be funny, be yourself, but dont be nervous or stutter. Start a conversation and bring it up slowly. But only when you sre fully ready. Practice in the mirror!
2007-04-10 10:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, enable's forget approximately approximately each and every of the sexist human beings available! it is the twenty-first freaking century. in case you like somebody, tell them. ladies shouldn't could experience backseat to men all of our lives only because of the fact it is seen "custom". Screw that, lol! I actual have asked out men earlier, and in lots of cases it is going quite plenty. men like ladies that take fee. in case you i like somebody then I tell them. i think of it is how all ladies could think of. Yeah it feels stable to get asked out, yet enable's settle for it, 0.5 the inhabitants does not have the balls for that. often times the lady only has to get the relationship started out, then the guy can take over from there.
2016-12-20 10:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she wants to go to the movies or out to eat on Friday. when it's quiet and you can talk, ask her about going steady.
2007-04-10 10:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋