my boyfriend and i have been dating for nearly 6 months. we never used to fight and all of a sudden we are?

Question

fighting about stupid little things like what time i need to get off the phone, and how much we talk to each other! how do i stop all the fights?!?

Answer 1

You don't stop them... If you do try stopping it by holding stuff in it will just build up and then you will blow up at each other and possibly ruin the relationship for good. Don't worry about the little fights as long as you love one another you'll get through it.

Answer 2

Ha! This happened to me, but with my boyfriend of 16 months. Around month 15, we started having fight every time we would talk on the phone, so we basically stopped talking, thus ending in a very awkward breakup. Beware! <3

Answer 3

Stop talking and seeing each other so much. The new has worn off. The real people are starting to show. It happens! Either things will get better or they won't. Try to distance yourself a little bit and see how things go.

Answer 4

Yeah, it pretty much sounds like the sparkly-butterfly-tingles phase has dwindled.

This is actually good because now you can see if you guys are really compatible.

As for the bickering, just cool down. It's really easy to just keep picking things apart, but you'll find as soon as you take a step back before you start nagging or complaining, you'll be able to see how it really is.

Answer 5

Find a new boyfriend. Sounds like all the lovey-dovey stuff has worn off, and the benefits of the relationship are being outweighed by the burdens.

Answer 6

The fights are inevitable.When you are with somebody you will have times that you fight that's people are.
Don't worry it's very normal.

Answer 7

Don't worry, they will stop...just don't over analyze the situations...just make the arguments short, sweet and to the point.
Then tell him how you hate arguing...and you wish not to fight with him.
Be honest.

Answer 8

It takes two to fight!