I put this really funny advertisement on his dry erase board which says "Dans Bed and Breakfast" " free internet, laundry, and cablevision." "Canoeing upon request". Check in at 4pm and check out at 7 AM." "kids eat free" "Pets Welcome"
We both thought it was very funny. His son got so mad he told my daughter he was never coming home again.
Do you think it was terrible or just the irony in the truth? Should I have been more sensitive or be happy he is never coming back. I think he needs to stay at his own apartment now since he lives 15 minutes away and has a new baby.
2007-04-10 09:18:55 · 18 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am thrilled he has chosen to never come home. Its been a long time since we have been able to engage in intimacy or been able to just relax without one of those grown kids walking in on us or worse yet the grandkids. We had to lock the doors to have sex. It was crazy and I am thrilled!!!!
2007-04-10 09:31:54 · update #1
Boyfriend complains over and over again because they come to his house, make big messes, leave dirty dishes, trash and read his newspaper and leave it all over before he even gets home from work. His 30 yr old son got drunk, let his dog loose and it was hit by a car and killed while he was gone work. There is a point where kids are no longer kids. They are grown up now. Nothing wrong with them being there, but enough is enough. If they would clean up after themselves, it would be a pleasure, but they dont.
2007-04-10 13:06:37 · update #2
Why did he move back in at home if he has his own place AND a new baby?
Sounds like you need to change the sign to read "Go home and act like an adult".
Good luck
2007-04-10 09:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Croa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's terrible that you might be happy he is never coming back, I can't imagine any other reason to think that of your boyfriend's children other than jealousy.
I would turn around and tell my parent that I wasn't coming back until you were gone. Maybe the children like being over there because they like it there and they miss their dad. So they do chores there, most kids their age do that.
And since you obviously don't have the children's best interest at heart, I dont think your thoughts about how much time they should spend anywhere is relevant since all your saying is you want them to be anywhere but your boyfriends.
Also, do you pay for the internet, laundry and cablevision in that house? If you do then you have a right to say something, if you don't then you're doing the same thing they do.
Parents do nice things for their kids because they're parents and that never stops because the kids reach a certain age, and you should accept that.
2007-04-10 09:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by mierzwak 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, your boyfriend didn't seem to have a problem with it. He could have erased it before anyone saw it if he felt it would be offensive. If he lives 15 minutes away then why do they need to stay at your home all the time? Maybe have your boyfriend talk to his kid and find out if there IS a reason why he wont go home, or maybe it just came out that he has no sense of humor.
2007-04-10 09:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is ok to wish to look after your little ones yet there is often a snapping factor to what's overboard. sure i'd under no circumstances turn my toddler away if there become a financial burden pondering the way everythig is going up in costs. yet while this is happening generally then you definately do ought to placed your foot down and say sufficient. yet im beneficial he seems at it he's not there multiple the time in any case and what would make the version if a individual become in the homestead and not a waisted place. He loves his little ones and needs them around. Alot of mom and dad are like that. merely a splash bit advice in case your going to attempt to handle it. frequently once you attempt to return in between family contributors then you definately are making a mistake and going to break your relationship. i'd casually convey it up with no longer that many comments and notice how the communication is going. regardless of each little thing they're his little ones and it rather is his homestead.
2016-10-02 12:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by lieser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is happening at his place that he doesnt want to be there? Ive gone home to my fathers house because I CAN! I'd rather take my kids there then for them to listen to my husband and I fight and my husband can be VERY verbally mean. But I dont take my pets or go canoeing
2007-04-10 09:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old adage "the truth hurts". I'd be willing to bet he won't stay away for long. Dan's Bed & Breakfast sounds like a really nice place to be.
2007-04-10 09:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job send him home he shouldn;t just be able to get up and leave all his responsiblities anyways and that sounds like its what hes doing its seems like hes not ready to be a grown up sometimes so he leaves his wife to take care of baby and moves home where the food is cooked and nothing is expected of him be happy i'm sure he'll still visit lol
2007-04-10 09:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. He is an adult. He is old enough to have a baby but is not old enough to take care of himself? You were right all the way.
2007-04-10 09:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be very happy with
him moving out.
And since he has a baby he should definitly move out.
Also he only lives 15 minutes away how bad could it be?.
2007-04-10 09:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Giovanna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to feel bad. Its funny. He cant deal with the truth. If he has hiw own he dont need to live there.
2007-04-10 09:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by mightymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋