i have a bf he left me then ask for another changes so i give it to him he calls me when i dont call him?

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he calls me when i dont call him but he says he is comeing to see me but never shows up but calls and says he was comeing but gas is to high and he stays 100miles from one another he said he should not be telling me he is comeing but then dont i said no you should not i miss you and want to be with you he says he knows that but gas it is always the gas but my mom thinks he is lieing and useing me and leading me on but i dont think he is because why would he be calling me and letting his 9 year old son talk to me on the phone someone told me to give him the gas money and see what happens i need help bad i am so mess up about all this because i dont get why he be calling me or letting his kid talk to me if he did not want to be with me i told him he could come stay the night but we would not be in the same room not just yet i got to trust him again but my mom and others say he is lieing and i am believe what ever he tells meand he says he likes me alot and likes talking to me as i do him

what do you think is he really wanting to be with me or is he leading me on and useing me help?? thanks.

ok why did he call and give me his new number when he left he got his number changed then two weeks later i got a letter from him saying he wanted me back then i wrote back like the letter said to and i told him to call or write or both so he called and asked me 3 or 4 times did i have his new number i said no so he gave it to me and just last week he asked for my cell number?

Answer 1

Do you really want a winney bf. He is trying to get money out of you. I have been there so many times. using the kid to get to you as well. been there too. I know you want to believe him but if he can't afford gas to come see you than he is not man enough to support himself. He will use you for all he can and probably any other girl he can at the same time.

Answer 2

He wants to keep in touch with you but I don't think he wants a relationship with you. At least, not a stable long-lasting real relationship. Ask him if he wants to get married - that will scare him away for good!
Gas money is never a good excuse not to see someone. Is he into drugs at all? Don't send him gas money and expect him to use it for gas, then.
I'd listen to your mom. She's got a feeling about him and she's probably right.

Answer 3

I would say that maybe he really likes you and wants to be with you but is scared of something. Be it that he cannot give you any good promis or he cannot give you a good living. Men always have this type of problem as they want to make every thing perfect for their mate and when they cannot they try to stay away as it seems a better choice than making false promises.

Try not to persuade him to come instead ask him to come you whenever it is feasible and reply him lovingly. Try this and stay in touch with him for some more time and i believe that the time itself will solve your problem.

Answer 4

Gas is expensive but if he really wanted to see you he would find a way. Lets say he gets 10 miles to the gallon(I'm sure he gets better than that). That is 10 gallons of gas to get there - 10 to get home. Lets say gas is $3.00 a gallon. Aren't you worth $60.00?
If he can't put out $60.00 to come and see you then I'd tell him to get lost.

Answer 5

he's definitely leadin you on sounds like something i've done before the girl i was talkin to was only 2 or 3 miles away and i always had some kind of excuse why i couldnt see her gas, work, i'm tired,something wrong with my car even it wasnt you know the truth you just dont want to see it love is blind

Answer 6

He just wants to have fun with you but is afraid of a commitment around you he is sexually attracted but something makes him want it to be just fun without the baggage

Answer 7

Never doubt what your mom and friends tell you! He's lieing and playing you.....Don't be a fool and get sucked back in.