I'm graduating next month and look where i am! i'm home because of my boyfriend! i didn't go to school and i hate not going to school but when my boyfriend puts me down i cant do anything! he has such an advantage of me and all i want to do is love him. he is not working with me and i just feel like sitting him down but every time we do that it works for a lil while then back to normal and it's not my fault!! i should be in school but i want everything to go good between me and him first! i wont let him go! because i know we are meant for each other..i'm trying to get in contact with me but he's not picking up! i feel like hurting myself!! i need his love now. and it's getting smaller and smaller every time we argue but it's his fault!!! i might not even go to school tomorrow =( . he is out right now but i don't know where, my head is spinning and i am emotionally drained right now. i need a really helpful friend right now. i need to smile and laugh. when im home im just stuck!
2007-04-10 04:30:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF you are having issuear and are not happy then you are not meant to be together. It's hard but you have to be happy. If you may be happyer with out him.
2007-04-10 04:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I really can't be nice in this situation. The one thing you need to do you won't do, and that is to leave him. You actually deserve everything you get because of that. You are in an abusive relationship but it's going to continue because you won't do anything about it. My guess is also, you've asked other people about this and most likely have felt sorry for you or told you the same thing, and yet you're still in this.
2007-04-10 11:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it's not his fault for any of this, it's all yours. He can't keep you from doing anything you want to do, only you can. Your self image is not dependent on him, and if he puts you down it's your fault if it affects you. Stop blaming other people and get control of your own life.
While you are at it, dump this loser and find a good man. You only think you love this guy, desperate is no way to go through life.
2007-04-10 11:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is abusing you, emotionally. You need to get out of that relationship now, before you hurt yourself and before he hurts you anymore. If you were "meant for each other" he wouldn't treat you like crap. You need to talk to a counselor or a parent or someone and get out of the relationship.
2007-04-10 11:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋