My girlfriend used 2 cheat, but she's been faithful 4 a while now, and she says she wants me to get her pregnant so we can start a family, what should I do? I really love her and I want her to have my child, should I do it?
2007-04-10 04:21:42 · 24 answers · asked by raynard h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is like a total no brainer.....run don't walk away from her. Ask yourself this. Are you ready to become a father? and who's to say that even if she says the baby is yours, how can you be for certain? Also, why would you want such an intimate relationship with a cheater? Right now you have options, just please don't let the option you exercise limit your other options.
2007-04-10 04:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by American Sensei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me once a cheater, always a cheater. I've been cheated on too.
Would you be sure it's your baby if she got pregnant ?
I wouldn't want to get a little baby mixed up in it, one way or the other. But if some cheated on me ( they have) They are history because I wouldn't trust them again.
2007-04-10 11:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that she has been faithful for a while? Are you thinking of marrying her?
You know her best. How long have you known her? Why and how did she cheat? Why won't it happen again?
These are some things that will help you decide what you need to do.
2007-04-10 11:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Krish K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long "a while" is. If it's less than a year, I'd say wait. You should err on the side of caution with her, since she's proven she can't be trusted. Would you want to bring a baby into a relationship where the trust is still shaky?
2007-04-10 11:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have already forgived her for what she did. People make mistakes and they can change. So maybe she really is trying to show you that she really loves you and wants to start a family with you. And her whole life will be about taking care of you and the baby.. But make sure that you guy's are ready for a baby.
2007-04-10 11:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess. if you went back to her after she cheated, then you're obviously gullible enough to have a child with her. did it ever occur to you that she might already be pregnant with someone else's child and wants to sleep with you to cover it up and make you think it's yours? just a thought. bear in mind, once a cheater, always a cheater. you don't "quit" cheating, ever. you need to think long and hard about this one, cowboy, and i hope you make the right decision.
2007-04-10 11:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"4 a while now" doesn't sound too convincing to me. BUT if you really do love her, I would get married first and see if she can handle that... there would be no bigger headache for you than getting her pregnant, and then her going about her cheating ways again while you are stuck sending her money every month to pay for your love child...
2007-04-10 11:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rionoir 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Form your question.. You are still not sure if she would again cheat you... So buddy till a time u r not confident that she would care for the child as well as u.. don't even think of the baby.. for the baby's sake....
2007-04-10 11:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start saving money for child support payments. If you aren't married, she has no intention of being faithful. Why should she? She gets what she wants from you now without that committment.
2007-04-10 11:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by justcallmeriss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your semen out of her womb.
This is like walking into the fire man. Just don't do it. You obviously are having thoughts against it, or else you wouldn't be asking on Yahoo! Answers such an obvious question.
So here I am, playing second fiddle to the inhibition part of your brain. Oh! Here comes the overture: "Don't... do... iiiiiittttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt!"
2007-04-10 11:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋