i'm 20 all my relationships dont work out. and i just dumped my boyfriend. now i'm feeling very lonely. i'm inlove with someone but i dont to let the person know.
2007-04-10 04:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by Miss thang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Imagine that Einstein was sitting there thinking "I could prove electricity, but I'm too scared to try it out" so then we'd all be sitting in darkness right now. your decisions may not change the world but they will change YOUR world. You'll never look back and think "I wonder if ______ loved me to?" or whatever.
Now, the other thing is that you need to learn how to be alone. It makes you a much stronger person.
2007-04-10 04:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to be alone right now. Take some time to be yourself, and depend on yourself for happiness, not someone else--other people will always let us down. You'll get past it. Spend time with your friends and family, and get involved in school, work, community, etc. Keep yourself busy and surrounded by people so that you aren't concentrating and thinking about how single you are. Enjoy the fact that you're free, and can date and be with whoever you want without anyone else's say-so!
Also remember that if you're not enough with a boyfriend, you'll never be enough without one. It will also help to stay away from chick-flicks and hallmark movies, and sappy music as well. Have one of your friends make you a CD of break-up songs to put in your car, and make a copy for work, etc. Sappy songs won't do you any good.
2007-04-10 11:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that person you like them. im 18 and i've never been in a relationship at all. im not bad looking but... i guess i had emotional baggage that i just couldnt get rid of for the longest time. im lonely too but... im really trying to get out of my mindset now. perhaps i have lol.
remember, people might not find the love of their life until they are 22, 30, or even longer than that, so you might be in a bunch of "it didnt work out" relationships until then. im not trying to sound depressing but just remember, sooner or later you will find that person. you wont feel lonely for long lol im sure you will find someone soon.
2007-04-10 11:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by cellie_mania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let the person know, if its someone you can't have then try to forget them and move on. You'll finally find a relationship that works, your young, don't worry.
2007-04-10 11:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared to be alone? Being alone is nothing to be scared of. I like my alone time in relationships. They are healthy that way, having each person have their own lives.
2007-04-10 11:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by <~*Megan*~> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're not gonna get anywhere with this attitude. Talking to someone is very easy. It's better to speak than be alone!
2007-04-10 11:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you need to let go of everything......maybe go out to a party or something and look for a guy and talk to him...but dont get hurt.....this guy ur talkin bout why dont you talk to him..let him know because u never know what will happen...so take the party or the guy talk! good luck
2007-04-10 11:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to be alone, you will feel lonely for a short time. you are young and you can have a new love soon..if you need a friend to talk to, just to encourage you and listen to you ..contact me, i will answer you.
2007-04-10 11:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check to see if you have a love addiction u can find it on the web............it pretty serious and most people dont know about it. Love addiction or love addict.
2007-04-10 11:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell me I might feel the same way about you :).
2007-04-10 11:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋