My girlfriend used to cheat but she said from now on she's gonna b faithful bcause she loves me and she never meant to hurt me, and she's living up to her word she's been faithful for a month asnd a half, can i trust her? should I trust her? Does that mean she really loves me? She talked about marriage, so is the cheating phase over?
2007-04-10 04:04:38 · 22 answers · asked by raynard h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest you buy that bridge that is for sale in Brooklyn, from Clit Tik, he sounds more trustworthy than your girlfriend ... ... ...
2007-04-10 04:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by melark 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow I think that you should break up with her. She isn't the right one if you are waiting for that pure marriage. She wants more than kissing, and she gets it by cheating on you. That's not something you want to keep going through over and over again, then to kiss your step-dad that is just wrong you deserve way better than her. I hope I helped.
2016-04-01 06:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cheating phase is never over especially when you aren't married! She is just doing enough to keep you satisfied... I bet the sex has even picked up a bit! Dont trust her not yet. Dont let her know you dont, just be careful and discreet b/c there are too many disease out here these days to be fooling around with a know cheat!
2007-04-10 04:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lovable 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not rush into marriage, but people make mistakes, sometimes they have to make alot of them before they get their heads out of the sand and learn.
The fact that you are learning to forgive and forget, and allowing her to earn back your trust is great.
Take it day by day, and maybe do pre-marriage counseling, and I think that you two could end up being very happy together if she has truly changed her ways. If you guys can make it through this I also think that your relationship could be that much stronger because of it.
Good Luck.
2007-04-10 04:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by moonshadow418 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People do make mistakes, and it's hard to forgive them. But eventually we do, and no one knows if that is our mistake or not. In your case it is your mistake. Even if that girl loves you, she will cheat on you. She has done her mistake three times, and she will think that she will get away with many more.
So as i said, she did her mistake, but you still have a choice about doing yours *again. People don't change a lot.
Will you ever trust this girl again? Do you want to make a family and have kids with her?
Those are decisions you have to make before you even think about marrying her.
I hope you will make the right one.
2007-04-10 07:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Accalia R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, this is THREE times. That is a lot! It really depends on yourself, if you should give her another chance. If you decide to give her another chance, let this be the LAST chance. It sounds tough but if she's going to cheat even after saying she's going to be faithful then she won't be worth it in the long run.
2007-04-10 04:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by pinksox4men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Fool me once, shame on you [and get out of my life]. Fool me three times," and I am a little @#$%& for letting it happen more than once.
She isn't going to stop cheating. How can you trust her?
If I caught my girlfriend kissing/making out with someone else it would be over. If someone wants to experiment and play the field, all she has to do is tell me and we can break up without the shouting (not that I would shout anyway, "It's over, have a nice life" has a lot more impact when you don't scream it).
2007-04-10 04:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself on whether you really trust her, believing that she has changed? if she said that she never meant to hurt you, then why did she cheated you in the first place? are you ready to marry her?..ask yourself..give yourself and your girlfriend more time to think about marriage, which is a life long partnership!
2007-04-10 04:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by rachaelosl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know that sounds like a hard decision since she did cheat on you 3 times... i wouldnt trust her just yet... but if its been a month and a half well then maybe .... but keep a close watch just in case and if she cheats on u again... she sobviously playing you.. thats no gf... u can find better.. trust me... good luck!
2007-04-10 04:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to find out WHY she cheated... if the reason is still in existance, then she's going to do it again without a second thought...
the three times she cheated, was it with the same person or three different people??? :D
2007-04-10 04:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fall for it, she's lying. but in the remote chance she's serious, given her past behavior it won't be long before she's cheating again. get rid of her. oh, and if you are still not convinced, listen to 'self esteem' by the offspring for some motivation.
2007-04-10 04:10:52 · answer #11 · answered by PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋