How can I be good in bed?

Question

I have started a new relationship and I just can't seem to be any good when I'm on top, I can't get any rhythm going and since its his favourite position I would like to be at least semi-good at it. come on girls any tips, (by the way I'm great in other positions!)

Answer 1

Pretend your winning the grand national and your the jockey. Start off slowly

Answer 2

This sounds rather odd - being 'good' at a position. Wtf? You make it sound like figure skating.

If it was a matter of, say, he doesn't enjoy what you do up there, or *you* don't enjoy what you do up there, then it would make more sense.

IF you don't enjoy how it feels up there, then maybe that's all you have to fix. The fact is, guys want you to be turned on, and ideally they'd like you to come. It's another biology thing - a female orgasm hugely increases the likelihood of conception, so guys instinctively (and unconsciously) want you to go boing because it's good for their genes.

So it seems to me, unless I'm stating the obvious, that what he'd probably like is for you to pop while you're up there, and he can watch. And the good news is that that position leaves your hands free - to do unto yourself whatever is necessary to make it happen. I don't know how you feel about, er, taking the matter into your own hands while your lover watches, but if you *don't* do it you're being very silly, and totally missing out.

Nobody knows your body as well as you do, and if you can get your fingers on your own buttons - with the added (hopefully) stimulus of the guy, his bits, and whatever else he can add to the process - then you should be able to have a really good time up there. And you can bet money that he'll like it: it's marvellous to see an expert at work!

Answer 3

well is it just a rhythm problem you have? or are you jsut a bit self concious up there??!
Maybe to help you get into a good rhythm you could ask him to cup your bum with his hands and kinda rock you? - or just loose your inhibitions and go with the flow - you'll know what feels good!!!
Im sure its something of nothing and you'll be riding him like a bronco in no time!
Good luck!
xx

Answer 4

a sexual act should come naturally, it should come from what feels good for you. yes it's nice to take you're lover into consideration but, he should be the one working it out. communication is the key to success in any relationship, even a sexual one. next time you're intimate, ask him to help you out a little bit. you're not supposed to just lay there while a female is riding you. personally he sounds like a lame in the sack, if you're not having gushing orgasms when you ride him, i say trade him in. : )

Answer 5

First things first, be confident about your body parts and its also very ipmortant to feel good and sexy about your self. Dont think about what you want to do to your man just let your hands do the talking very important always make sure that you smell gud it boost your confidence.

Answer 6

first off all stop thinkin while doin it!!!!! just relax n start moving slowly n build up from there but dont think about it cos that will get u out of rythm,if need to b put some music on.

Answer 7

choose a song with a good beat to it then just copy the beat. R kelly, g spot

Answer 8

I have the same problem, that of being good in bed...mother tells me that she will lock me in the sin closet if she has to wash my sheets again this week....I can't help the devil visits ..I cant!

Answer 9

Lots of practice

Answer 10

Prentend you are horseback riding! Try a gyro affect!