Hmm..Just wondering how many people out there still miss their ex?
My 1st relationship ended 2 mths ago. We were together for 1 year plus. It wasn't a very great breakup. There are times when I still miss him, wonder what he is doing, wonder if he will miss me as well. I know its almost impossible for us to be together again but I still think of him from time to time.
Is this normal? When will this stop? Will it ever stop?
2007-04-10 00:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's normal i've been in arealtionship with a new guy for three years now and we're talking marriage and all but i still love my ex we talk from time to time especially if we are going through a crisis of some type. we are still friends and love each other but not enough to be together anymore. we understand that it's over concerning anything more than being friends true love never dies
2007-04-10 01:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are certain days where, after having been divorced for 15 years now, that I still miss my ex-wife. There aren't very many of those days, especially when I take a few moments to think upon the circumstances of our breakup, but I have a handful of good memories of times with her that make me long for a simpler, more innocent time before all the crap happened. I don't know that it'll ever stop. But the time between those episodes should increase more and more as time goes by.
2007-04-10 07:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breakups usually are not that great and the first relationship is especially hard to get over. Give it some time and you should feel much better. It is normal to feel a need for affection specially when one is coming out of a relationship. It is certainly in your interest to move on with your life. Best of luck!
2007-04-10 07:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by usman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very normal. Especially if you had a bad break up. Maybe you have some unresolved feelings or things you never got to say. People that you fell in love with will always occupy a place in your heart. You will think of him less as time goes on and it won't hurt as much. Good luck
2007-04-10 07:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i split with my ex abt 1 1/2 yrs ago and from time to time i still really miss him, i would say its very normal to miss them sometimes. i cant really say wether it will ever stop but the best thing to do is get on with ur own life, enjoy times with ur mates and maybe one day u will get bk together or even find someone better than him.....x
2007-04-10 07:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea....everybody misses their ex sometimes they always have the good memories they share wit their ex...its a normal thing to feel..you spend soo mush of your time wit that person..so of course they will pop up in your mind at times and you will think of the fun things ya did together...but if you keep thinking about it you only goin to miss them more and you just got to remember the reason why ya also broke up.....and that will kinda push you to not think about them.....no one knows when it will stop and it might never stop you will always think about that person because they are your first heartbreak and happiness....like how you see ppl when they are about to get married and its always seem to be one person that goes and see their ex for closure....ppl always think about their first love...it also depends on you and when you believe it is finally to let go and know that things are mush better now and without that person...things happen for a reason...your ex im sure still thinks about you too...everyone deals wit different situations and problems different ways and cope different ways. things will get better and moving on will get easier.
2007-04-11 11:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't miss my ex at all, but he misses me. LOL. He's always telling me how great I was, how I was the best, etc. but I never say these things about/to him. It makes me feel good to hear he still misses me and thinks so greatly about me though.....
2007-04-13 15:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
When you realize that you at least did not get stuck with all the "MUTUAL" debts.
Best to ask yourself if it's a wise memory to keep on holding onto since really it did not work out
2007-04-10 08:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal but it will eventually and you will not even think that he exists only if u put your mind at it, i dnt think of my ex coz i found myself someone very special.
2007-04-10 07:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by tinyiko g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately
It is very hard situation.
This is normal and reaction of your lonely.
Only you should be patient .
more and more You will forget him.
I say that you;
Also Everytime.
someone to MISS BETTER than to be hate.
in this way ;You can get deeper life's meaning.
2007-04-10 07:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋