well I like this guy, we met on-line and have bin talking for a while and he lives in the same state as me and only about 50 miles away at the most ,we've talk on the phone a couple of time and text back and forth.. My perants found out and flipped and told me to never talk to him again and that they were watching my phone bill and text.... They saw his number on my phone and called him i was so angry words could not evan exsplane!!......... The next night i started talking to him online again and he told me that he never wonted to lose me and that i was his girl !... I wont to meet him in june when a friend comes up to see me so i have so one to go with to meet him..And well i don't know what to do cuz i do really like him and i know there is an age differance but i like him and i injoy talking to him and just hearring his voice....What should i do i'm so confuzzzed!!!......?????.......
2007-04-10 00:33:59 · 25 answers · asked by lillmissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to you parents!
If he truly is 18, then he you guys having a relationship will send him straight to jail.... stick to your own age, maybe 15 yrs at the max.
However, I bet you he is a pedophile and is just waiting for you to set a date to meet. Very scary people out there that will tell you anything and everything you want to hear... just so you think that you can trust them.
If he is in fact 18, then he is not very smart getting involved with a 13 yr old girl. Think about this logically, you are 13, what is that 7th or 8th grade? He is an adult. If he is involving himself with you, then he has no life going no where fast, and you will ruin yours for a loser. Most smart 18 year old guys are going to college to make something out of themselves. Don't you want a smart and intelligent guy with goals? You deserve one!
I hope you do the right thing and realize that your parents truly love you and only want the best for you.
2007-04-10 00:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answerer. He sounds fake. No offense or something cuz I'm sure there are real life cases in which it has worked out but why would an 18 year old bother with a 13 year old when he can get with other girls his age? I say wait a few years and if its true then go ahead. If he doesn't wait around then he's (obviously) not worth it. Don't be so hasty in making rash decisions like that. Be smarter.
Sorry if this answer disappoints you but if you really want to do something about it, why don't you have him come over and meet your parents first? The idea of you going out to meet him first is fishy. If he goes over to meet your parents first then you and they can judge for yourselves on how good of a person he is. Going with a friend by yourselves sounds stupid though. He might as well bring friends too, no?
2007-04-10 07:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Silverfang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that he is 18, he could be older. How do you know that this isn't just some freak on the internet who has you falling for him and a load of more girls too. For your own safety and wellbeing I would strongly advise you NOT to meet up with this guy. I do realise that kids do do stupid things so if you do, make sure its in a very public place first.... so you dont get kidnapped or worse... Be careful. Ask yourself also what is he interested in you for? It could just be for sex... like a lot of 18 year olds, and frankly you're not ready for that kind of stuff yet. Do the right thing and forget about him., If you don't wanna get in trouble from your parents just don't tell them.
2007-04-10 07:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Huggie Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who seeks out a relationship with a 13 year old on line or otherwise, is not a normal person.
You are jail bait for one and there could be legal action taken against him.
Knowing that he is still pursing, even tho your family has taken a step to intervene.
This tells me he is not what you think he is.
He is manipulative, deceitful and does not respect authority.. which leaves me to believe he is a criminal of some sort.
I know you are all starry-eyed and don't want to hear anything bad about him but....... you must be realistic, this is bad news.... You are too young to fully understand people who manipulate others... do you not see on Tv about men luring young girls to them...
This is the case and you had better wake up and smell the coffee... or you could become a statistic...
You are too young to fully realize what is going on here and I am not trying to disrespect you, but I have to be honest...
Stop this right now.....
2007-04-10 07:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are only 13 years old! Do you know how dangerous that is? You must listen to your parents. I know by now you haven't been in the dark about sexual predaters on the net. And you need to concentrate on you school work not some man on the Internet. The time will come when you will meet someone in person, don't rush getting in a relationship, you are to young. And please listen to your parents, they know best! Do not meet this man it would be very foolish.
2007-04-10 07:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl!
He could be anyone. He could have another girl. You can't trust people you've never met.
Tell him you just want to be friends. I know how hard it is, but in the end it will be best. You're only 13 after all, there's plenty of guys ahead of you. And accept it or not you're naive. He will want things so different than you will.
Get rid of him quick, he will only cause trouble in the long run.
Good Luck, Be Safe xx
2007-04-10 07:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by crackingthecandy446 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will more than likely be sorry you go against the words and knowledge and trust of your loving, caring parents..they only what to protect you from what is going to happen when and after you meet this guy. it may not happen the first time but it will happen. Respect your parents and earn their trust by honoring their love for you, their wisdom, intelligence and knowledge about this situation. you'll be more than glad you did...even though you may not like it or will be nervous about it, talk to them and have them tell you in plain english and in all the words you need to hear to understand why it is you should not talk to or ever go meet this guy and why they wont and don't want you to..show them how big and grown you are at 13...
print this out and/or show it to them if you doubt my words...
all will be fine, i promise you that..
2007-04-10 07:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a no no giving out your info to someone you don't even know,if he is 18 you will get him in trouble and he will go to jail, your parents will see to that,but most likely this guy is much older and trying to get your address to rape or kill you hes probably around 50 or 60 and rape kids be careful and listen to your parents for your safety.
2007-04-10 07:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me havent u seen those tv shows that show all those guys wanna do im a yr younger than u all he wants to do is get in ur pants and do u thats all he wants otherwise why would he be talking to a 13 yr old when hes 18 why wouldnt he get another 18 yr old if he cant then hes problably an ugly perverted jerk listen to us ur gonna get in real trouble 4 this!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-12 09:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by lexus s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going to get raped by a 60 year old paedophile. Just be ready for it and it might not hurt too much.
Learn to spell, I've seen 7 year olds do better.
2007-04-10 07:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by playbunnysoup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋