After being with my gfriend for 2 months, she has read my msn without my permission. Worst still, is that she read a conversation with a girl that I have been sleeping with and probably will sleep with in the summer. Its a BIG MESS!
2007-04-10 00:31:35 · 29 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question should be..."can she trust you?"...
And the answer would be pretty obvious....wouldn't it?
2007-04-10 00:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have been with your gfriend for 2 monthst and you have meet and sleeped with another girl that u meet on line thats so wrong........your gfriend must of known there was somthing going on behind her back thats why she went in to your msn......should your gfriend trust you now after the BIG MESS YOU MADE.....your gfriend is better of with out you in her life. she dont need a cheater in her life
2007-04-10 07:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you really love this girl (seems like you don't) you must tell her the truth and promise that you won't sleep with anyone but her -and Really mean it.
In your position you daren't complain about that message, as you have been caught out.
Her best option, if she's got any sense, is to dump you now and move on -you don't deserve a decent woman in your life... what with you "sleeping around and spreading STIs"!
2007-04-10 08:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe in individual privacy! She's definitely wrong! Even if she's been with you for 10 or 20 years, she still has no right to read your personal things! Yes, it's a big mess! You should warn her, not to step into your personal circle of life where everyone has their own! Respect individual privacy!
2007-04-10 07:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by ChampsElysées 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my personal opinion, when you commit to a relationship, you commit to sharing things and you have to accept that your privacy might be compromised.
I wouldn't care less if my boyfriend curiously looked at my MSN messages... why? Because I have NOTHING TO HIDE.
2007-04-10 08:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly not, if she snoops through your stuff. She was looking for it, she found it, and now she doesn't like it.
Many people seem to feel that they can or should do things like this. It's always abuse to snoop and spy, regardless of what is found, and anyone who does it is too paranoid for anything long-term.
She'll never trust you again, of course - and you'd be nuts to trust her.
2007-04-10 07:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are in doubt of trusting each other now. Though she invaded your privacy but it might be her only way to find out, to be sure you're cheating on her. Don't blame her for it's you who is the culprit.
2007-04-10 07:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by vards 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup! VERY big mess! She did invade your privacy - which was wrong - but she had no right - so in a way it serves her right to have found out something like that!
You say you have been and are going to mess around with - so maybe you shouldnt really have a girlfriend? Like - why commit to one person when you could just stay single and play the field guiltfree!?
xx
2007-04-10 07:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are the one in the wrong if you are planning on cheating on her.
What is worse, looking at a couple of messages or sleeping with someone behind their back?
2007-04-10 07:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
isn't the real question why should she trust you?
you betrayed her with the other girl and are now scared of her reaction as she has now found out. unfortunately you'll just have to wait and see how she reacts, theres no way of predicting her response.
2007-04-10 07:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by only1doug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of you have a problem. you cant trust her and she cant trust you so why are the 2 of you still 2gether
2007-04-10 07:39:18 · answer #11 · answered by rex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋