ive been talking to this girl lately and i asked her out recently,since then ive always been talking to her and i dont know if its a good idea because its always me who is initialising the conversation,ihavent talked to her in a day or 2 and she emailed me today tryin to talk,as of now i have ignored it,should i act like this to let her know that she is not the only peson in the world i want to talk to,or should i keep talking to her to keep me fresh in her mind,answers please,i appreciate it!!
2007-04-10 00:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way,she never said yes,she said she wanted to think about it because she has only been out of a long relationship(9 months) a few days,which is true
2007-04-10 00:29:03 · update #1
go to playboy skool.com and read first.
then here's one idea....
then get back with her tonight and just keep it short and light and funny and fun. tell her you are going to ________(anywhere) and say"come if you want to, meet me there, it will be fun." see ya and go for about 15 minutes..if she doesn't show just go back home and email her in a few days and say, hi, you missed it" and then avoid the subject all together and ask her to go somewhere again to have some fun...
soon you'll know if she wants to date you
2007-04-10 00:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. If she initialized the conversation this time, answer back. Maybe it always seems like its always you who initiates the conversations because she doesn't get a chance to start one? Or maybe she is busy or preoccupied with something at that time. If you're going out with her, dont ignore her. That would just be stupid.
If, however, she is the one always talking to you and you are getting sick of it you can always tell her you're busy and talk to her later (and do so). Don't make promises you can't keep.
2007-04-10 07:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Silverfang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to play games. If you like her talk to her. If you don't ignore her. It is time to grow up, and make a stand one way or the other. Do you really want to continue playing this silly game with her?
2007-04-10 07:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking too her, it will work out man! if she didn't like you she wouldn't have put fourth the effort to email you :)
2007-04-10 07:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignoring people is wrong and unpolite. u can tell her that u re busy cos u need to talk to someone besides her, but ignoring? who tought u manners?
2007-04-10 07:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by 111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking... she sounds like she's interested if she e-mailed you.
2007-04-10 07:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Pony dude's girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋