the problem is that I dont love any of these and I am not going to fell in love with them...
I am not a liar...I am actually a good guy, I deserve others trust easily and now I feel bad because I am using their trust in a bad way.....
2007-04-10 00:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Jack,
Congratulation that you have relation with 4 girls at the same time.
It is not necessary that you should love any of them.
You can not fell in love with all four of them.
Do not worry they must be knowing this basic fact and may not have any problem . Now a days girls also enjoy company without fell in love with any one.
Pl. stop warring and enjoy the life. Always think you all are friends not lovers.
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
2007-04-10 00:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not unique, as I'm sure you're aware. It's a difficult situation to maintain, and keeping everyone happy can be very hard. Often these things end in a massive explosion in which several people are killed by the shockwave.
I'm prepared to accept that you are, as you say, a 'good guy'. In that case you probably hate not being able to be honest with these people. I assume that honesty would cause the explosion described.
Tricky. Eventually it's going to resolve itself, though. If you're not actually in love with any of these people then your own pain will be limited to the loss of, er, privileges. In the current setup there's no way to escape from this without hurting people, unfortunately. The theoretical 'honourable' course would be to confess all - but this would make everyone unhappy, so how's that a good idea?
2007-04-10 07:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them sorry now. And don't expect to get away with it.
If you keep doing this you'll get a bad rep, and won't have any relationships for a long time.
That might not worry you now, but it'll become a habit and you'll end up alone.
And you don't deserve trust. No one will trust you if you keep doing this.
If you can't commit, that should be your problem, don't drag FOUR other girls down for it.
2007-04-10 07:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by crackingthecandy446 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ask yahoo answers? if you feel bad follow your conscience and have a bit of integrity for goodness sake. Someone will get hurt and you may end up very very lonely.
you may think you're a good guy but this is not reflected in your behaviour and treatment of others so try to resolve this by doing the right thing.
2007-04-10 07:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love them why you're having commitment with them. You're really bad you're having a relationship with four girls at the same time.
2007-04-10 07:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four? How the heck do you have the energy to keep up with them? Four???? You must drink a LOT of Red Bull!
2007-04-10 07:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious! You must choose one... If you're shy to refuse the 3 girls, talk her in calm. And take advises to the priest if you can't choose! Leave them if you're not serious they spend much time to you but you're not in serious with them . What if they loved other guy and they refuse the guy 'coz she chooses you but you're not in serious with that girl! Try to think...... Hope I can help!---
2007-04-10 07:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by ╞...Mary..._^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk. Be a man about it. Tell them that you want to be single for awhile, and let them go on with their lives, or continue to date on occasion.
2007-04-10 07:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gud boy lol i dowt it. u shud tell them the truth, then u wudnt feel bad. let them decide. u shud end up with no1 lol
cheater
2007-04-10 07:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by geordiesteph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever seen the movie John Tucker Must Die?
2007-04-10 07:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋