At a party on Saturday night my drunken boyfriend decided he would dance with all the other girls there, kiss them and feel up their skirts and down their tops whilst I was there. Not only did he do it when I was there he also thought he would brag about it the morning after. Throughout our relationship which has only been about a month, I have had suspicions that something is going on between my boyfriend and my best mate, but after talking to a work colleague, I learnt to trust them both. I love my boyfriend even though I feel a right mug... he said sorry but didn’t feel he meant it as he isn’t willing to change... he wants to end it because he prefers being single. I don’t know what to do... I don’t want to see or talk to him anymore as knowing I cant have him makes my heart hurt even more. He wants to just be friends... but I don’t want to be friends and now he’s calling me selfish. Please help, I am so confused!!!! Thanks, Lou xxxxx
2007-04-10 00:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by lilharibo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite what everyone has said... I still love him and I just want to be with him!! Arrgghh. Thanks for your help anyway!
2007-04-10 02:11:48 · update #1
you are not selfish at all.... you are doing what will help you and actually putting yourself first when it comes to being hurt... you are doing what you should be doing..... dont listen to him, i honestly would never give this guy the time of day because even if we stayed friends, i wouldnt want to hear him talking about all the girls he got with. its not even like you can give the excuse that he was drunk so thats why all this happened and he really didnt mean it, you said so yourself that he bragged about it the next day... he obviously doesnt care about you enough to date you and no friend would disrespect another friend like that.... you are 100% right and tell him that you dont want to see him or talk to him ever again
2007-04-10 00:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nichole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your bf have only been together for a month and he is kissing and feeling up other girls that is dead wrong when he has already got you he doeant care about you you are beeter off with out him i know it will hurt but he will never change for you or for anyone eles you can find a better guy that will treat you right and that would never hurt you in that way as your bf is doing right now he need to grow up........his a playa and he loves what he does he wont stop......you dont need him trust me his only going to hurt you more if you stay with him..... and your suspicions could be right about him and your best friend...i hope i have helped you out...im hear for you if you need more advice
2007-04-10 07:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him. There's no point in you staying together because you want completely different things. I know how difficult it is but you really have to move on and find a guy who cares about you rather than wasting time on a moron. If you stay with him it sounds like you'll only spend the rest of your life watching him molest other girls.
2007-04-10 07:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by playbunnysoup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missy, let him go. Can you not see he really wants to be single? I think you've had enough clues. There are better men out there. Hard to see it now, but you'll laugh at why you even posted this question 6 months from now.
Trust me, you'll find someone better and all this is for the good.
2007-04-10 07:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It obiously means that he doesn't love/like you as much as you do him. He's not serious about his relationship with you; otherwise, he wouldn't be doing and saying those things, knowing that it hurts you. Move on my friend.... that's the best advice I can give you. Go out and fine someone who will appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer.
2007-04-10 07:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That stupid lousy MCP! Just stay away from him! Move out to a new place , change your phone. lost all contact with him, where he can't find you. Only these, you can forget him. He is selfish, not you? He is surely not your Mr. right!
2007-04-10 07:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by FIXIT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG after what he did at the party,you still love him.He is the one who is selfish and not worth you.Just forget him.
2007-04-10 07:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that when he leaves, this is one a** he won't be touching again. Tell the jerk to move over and make room for a real man. It is his loss, don't you even worry about it.
2007-04-10 07:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be single as quickly as you can and say to him "selfish? ha, good for me then, if you can't accept us not being friends, too bad, thats the way it is"...c ya...you should feel so good after you take back your Power!
good luck
2007-04-10 07:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋