2007-04-09 19:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by september 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
In general more attracted. Several reasons: A): the married man is more self-assured because he doesn't need to chase tail to score; B): the single guy is more insecure and has a hard time not letting it affect his ability to score or to show his insecurities that immediately turn a woman off because regardless of what they say about sensitivity and emotional bonding, women really want men to be strong and lead - besides most women will think he has a problem if he is unattached, so would have a greater tendency to doubt his desirability even if such doubt was unjustified; C): many women want something they shouldn't have - the grass is greener syndrome; D) the most fatal reason - a woman may think she "deserves" the married man more than the wife does, or may think she is more suited to him or will treat him better or can fix him better; and that if she and the married man were really soul mates this would give her the justification to steal him from the wife because they "should" be together, even at the wife's expense.
BTW in general it is the same for men - - being attracted to married women more than they are to single women, but in this case because by this point in her life she has realized that sex is a good thing and in general plays less games concerning sex than unapproachable women do who do not usually know that they are putting their happiness (and those of the guys who would want to date them) on hold by playing hard to get - plus the married lady generally has less hang-ups in the bedroom and is not shy about attaining orgasm and no longer believes that a man lusting after her is necessarily in and of itself a bad thing, nor does she believe in the double standard that lust for men is good and for women makes them a slut- she knows sex is a gift from the Creator - and that as long as you don't hurt someone with it, it is ALL good.
2007-04-09 19:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may not be doing wrong by loving her, but I do not think a marriage will last between you two. You want a honest answer, I am giving you my opinion and it is only an opinion. I have been there, done that but not with that much of an age difference. I was once a bartender and a club manager, and I used to see alot of things go on with people that I served, plus ones that I know or knew. Very few of them are together now, because of the age difference. I am not telling you that it will not work out, but majority do not. Myself I am 58, I have a daughter 38, a son 36 , and I would not even think about someone that young. I may look but that is far as it goes with someone that young. I wish you the best, but if I was a betting man you will be trying to get back to your wife within 8 years. Good Luck
2016-03-17 22:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One big reason is because married men usually have more going on than single men, which is similar to how a college guy has more going on than a highschool guy.
Girls usually go for guys who are a few steps ahead of them in life. Like the 10th grade girl goes for the college guy who ofcourse has a car, an apartment, possibly a job, a career, knows all the cool hang out clubs and pubs, confident,etc, and is more appealing to her than a highschool boy who lives with his mom, doesn't have a car, or a job or career, etc. Same applies to the married guy over the single guy.
A married guy is usually more seasoned in romance, love, his life. He shows he knows how to commit, and knows how to really make a lady happy, which is his wife. He has many responsibilites which a highly responsible man is sexy to women. A single guy usually isn't as seasoned in lasting romances. Rare if he can really commit, and simply has less responsibilities in his life to take care of. Girls usually go for the guy who's more on "King Leonaidas" status over one of the Kings rookie men.
2007-04-09 19:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, women like to compete like that. Men usually go for virgins since STD's.
2007-04-09 19:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by mbeke.fanatico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always figured its true that women are more attracted to a guy they can't have.
2007-04-09 19:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by businessgrad2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because married men are more secure in thier life and thats what women look for
2007-04-09 20:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, unfortunately its true. its the general rule of the grass is greener on the other side and you always want what you can't have. It sucks !
2007-04-09 19:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Emerald 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some feel they have the endorsement of their wives acceptance .Answer; yes and no, it depends on the individual.
2007-04-09 20:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, probably because they find these men more attractive and experienced ( wink*)
2007-04-10 23:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Volvogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋