theres this guy right, i dated him for 5 months and he was obssesive, possesive, and kind of controling. okay my sweet 16 is in like 2 months right and he wants to go back out with me, and me and him are kind of split right now. My best friend in the world asked me to be my date and he has a boyfriend okay so yea hes gay and my ex still has a problem with this. What should i do?? please help
2007-04-09 13:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, with this guy your life will always be miserable. You had nothing at all good to say about him. Find someone who will treat you right. Your young and shouldn't be in a relationship like this. If your gay friend is taking you to the prom or something of that nature and you feel comfortable with it then go, but if not don't. Don't get sucked into a life with someone mistreating you.
2007-04-09 13:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your ex isn't in a position to have a problem with anything you do! That's the special thing about being an ex! You named several really good reasons why any sane person with any prospects at all wouldn't go near him with a ten foot pole. You made the right decision not to continue dating him. Be firm and decisive with him, say goodbye and don't look back. Anything you say or do which he can construe as promising will only feed his obsessive behavior. Look for someone without these bad traits for your future dating.
2007-04-09 20:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you having one of those big flashy parties if so he probably just wants to be in the lime light with you for the party as for you going out with a gay friend thats your business this guy doesnt own you. if he feels threatened by a gay guy then he got his own insecurities to deal with him blow him off he's old news find you someone hotter at your party.
2007-04-09 20:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should not be in Marriage and Divorce
2007-04-09 20:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by tc12505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has showed you how he is. What else do he have to do?
2007-04-09 20:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋