im turning 20 in a couple months. and im so scared of getting old, in every way possible i been like this since i was 14 i think im too old for everything. im scared of getting wrinkles im scared of all the responsibilites im even scared that my parents are older now... mom 42 and shes has crazy wrinkles around her eyes sometimes i wish she was fat so that it can fill out her face i cannot picture my parents old i hate the thought of it ,my dads turning 45 this month half their life is basiclly finished and im the same with my lil brothers i hate the fact that they arent my so called "lil" bros anymore but i still look at them that same way . my 13 yr old bro voice has changed and it makes me so sad. i even envy 16 yr old's, whats wrong with me? its not just the fact of looking old its everything. whats wrong with me? everyone says "its apart of life" and i always tell myself that but it doesnt work.
2007-04-09 12:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
just live your life, keeping your mind & body active, & don`t worry so much about what`s gonna happen in 5 or 10 or 20 years!!! that is the best way!!! because we are all gonna get older, it`s just how u choose to do it...by being active & doing the things u enjoy, or by sitting around wondering if u have wrinkles or if u are too old to do something??? i prefer the former choice & most of the people i meet remark that i have more energy than people half my age!!! i don`t sit around & think about "what ifs" & "i can`ts", i just get out there & live & do what i want!!! take care of yourself & have fun & u will enjoy your life a lot more!!!
2007-04-09 12:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by *atomickitty* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting old is a part of life but that does not mean that it is the end of the world. I mean even "things" get old.
I am 32 yrs of age and I have learned that with age comes wisdom, at least you would hope. You live and learn and as the yrs go by, you learn from your experiences.
YES, aging is a part of life and it is inevitable. and being that this is the way it is going to be, i look at this way. MATERIALISTIC THINGS THAT DO NOT AGE, ARE NO LONGER AVAILABLE FOR USE.
PEOPLE THAT DO NOT AGE, ARE NO LONGER ALIVE.
So which one do you choose, to accept the reality that everything ages, stay alive and make the best of things, or become non-existing?
Be happy and accept yourself, it is okay to become old and wrinkly, it is like death, you cant escape it.
2007-04-09 20:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by elivabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live ur life to the fullest so you have something to be happy and proud of.
Everybody gets old. It's a part of life.
Ur parents may be getting old, but they have probably lived a happy life.
I learned that ifI was always worry about something that is no wehere near, it sucks. Live everyday to the fullest cause you only have one life to live.
2007-04-09 19:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something you're gonna have to get used to. You think you're worried now? wait'll you turn fifty! Mmwahahahahaha.
2007-04-09 19:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am 49 and i look like i am 35, dont worry
2007-04-09 19:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow old gracefully!it shows!
2007-04-11 19:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋