I am a married muslim women, i am happily married but sex life is very boring?

Question

is it bad to masturbate by watching porn everyday?
if yes how do i stop
pls help and why is it haram in islam?m confused

Answer 1

Believe it or not ... I once worked at a bookstore and I had a muslim couple come into the store and ask where they could find books about sex. They were not shy to come into the store and ask that question or be seen in that ailse, so you shouldnt be shy to communicate this to your husband. Another thing .. You have no idea of what your muslim brothers and sisters are doing, and im sure its Haram .. No one talks about anything behind the bedroom doors, and you dont have to either. Those affairs only matter and only need to be known by you and your husband. GoodLuck ... Maybe check out www.cosmopolitan.com ... You can check out the sex advice there, and if you think its haram and you get caught .. Tell him or whoever else that you were reading the magazine online!!!

Answer 2

First, you don't marry anybody you don't really know. Remember people from different cultures have different beliefs when it comes to the roles of men and women. You don't know if he already has other wives, you don't know if he believes in corporal punishment of his wife, etc... If you have children they will be considered Muslim even if you don't want them to be Muslim. Remember the movie "Not Without My Daughter" that wasn't as far fetched as some people believe. Tread lightly, don't jump into marriage just because you want a man. Your self worth is not defined by having a man. Why the hurry? Don't be fooled by material things, you may get into something that will be hell on earth. Scripture warns about unequal yokes and that's for a reason, usually women are the ones who pay dearly. Please, be very careful and very upfront with your beliefs to him. Let him know what you'll tolerate and what you won't. I say don't do it, Americans or westerners haven't a clue about Middle Eastern cultures and some get into situations that they wish they hadn't. Save yourself the grief, material things just aren't worth it.

Answer 3

Your sex life won't improve unless you speak to your husband about how you feel. You can masturbate until the cows come home but if you don't express how you feel to your husband it will always remain on the boring side in the bedroom.
Who knows he may even feel the same, so open up and tell him how you feel so you can both enjoy a good sex life.

Answer 4

Teach your husband how to have a good sex.There are good books at the library ,and good information in the Internet about how to improve sex at the marriage.Good question.

Answer 5

Provoke your husband with a fetish that will get his stick up so he can do you know what.

Answer 6

its your body to do with as you please and i bet your husband would be pleased if you shared this with him i think the more you get to know a person the better intimacy is b/c you both know what the other needs so start talking to him

Answer 7

if your sex life is so boring shouldn t you be thinking about ways for the "two" of you to spice it up

Answer 8

It's not bad, but it would be better to wake up your husband.

Answer 9

in what way is it boring, you need to talk to your husband, sounds like you caint get enough of it, but talk to your husband

Answer 10

it's fine, its your body to do with as you please. but why not gently suggest to your husband, without making him feel like less of a man, ways that he could please you? suggest a fantasy to him, or if it's porn that really turns you on, watch it together.