why do marriages end in divorce?

Answer 1

where else are they going to end

Answer 2

There can of course be many reasons. I have been married for twelve years. I know a big one is finances. Communication, infidelity, lying, drinking, drugs etc. But what I believe happens is anger or great disappointment in the marriage. Somebody does something married people shouldn't do and the other won't or can't forgive. If you do something that you wouldn't do when your spouse is not there then you are living wrong. Some say they grew apart, due mainly to not doing enough things together. Or not taking interest in what your spouse likes. Sacrifice is a major part of marriage. But the most important of all is love. I love my wife more than anyone in world, my family included. That may seem bad, that's the way it is.

Answer 3

well, the marriages are supposed to be a blessing but there is a saying, "if the couple has a child or have sex before the marriage, it will end up horrible". But personaly i think that this has a scientific answer because my parents were living together when they got married and yes i was born already and they ended up divorced. People say that parents who get divorced with children usually the children end up divorcing too when they get married so i hope this info helped you out. Peace out
trully, prxlegend.

Answer 4

I can't tell if your parents are getting a divorce, you are, or a friend is so I will give you my opinion the best I can. I just got divorced and it mostly happens because the people don't work well together. Have you ever heard the saying a christian and a crackhead can not be together, well that is true entirely and it doesn't have to be that extreme, but you have to GO together. I have always been motivated and kept myself busy with school and work to get ahead, my ex wife was not into that, she hated school, hated work, and if she wasn't at home she always wanted to go out. That is cool when you are young, but when you get older and have kids you have to be responsible, in my opinion. There are many reasons people don't go together but in a nut shell that is the reason why most people get a divorce, they grow apart, got married for the wrong reasons in the first place, or become unhappy with their partners actions to the point that they can't take it anymore.

Answer 5

Not all marriages end. There are more happily married couples in the world than we know of. I was extremely happy in my marriage and if my husband had not died suddenly we would STILL be married and happy. On the flip side, some people don't believe in divorce, but can't stay with each other so they separate and just live apart.

Answer 6

1-shouldn't have gotten married to begin with, got married for wrong reasons, did not really know who they were or what they wanted

2-addictions or abuse (physical and mental and alcohol)

3-not getting any and looked somewhere else for it (cheating)

4-COMMUNICATION GAP-really if you plan on spending the rest of your life with someone you should be able to talk to them

5-a personal definition of marriage some think it is a dictatorship and some think it is something to float in and out and some think it is a must with children (poor kids) and some just don't have any idea what they think it is.

6-commitment, today everybody wants No commitment, etc.

7-partnership-along with communicating, the marriage is a union and must work like a partnership, a person is partnering for life

8-meddlers, and sorry people who have no faith and trust and those people who gave them a reason to doubt

9-God, lots more reasons, but in general people need to have a personal relationship with God that has nothing to do with church or status. Then that relationship needs to expand a little, Marriage is a bond between the man woman and Father.

Answer 7

You might want to read John Gottman's "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work." He is a couples therapist and researcher who has found that divorce is more likely with couples who have certain communication patterns. He has nailed this down to a science, and the book is easy to read.

I'm not saying that this book covers all the reasons... but at least some.

Answer 8

There is no one size fits all answer here. There are lots of reasons, some good, some silly. Not all marriages end in divorce. Everyone has their own reasons.

Answer 9

everyone is different. Some people are just too different to be with another different person so that can cause problems. take this for example: if someone is organized and their spouse isn't that causes a lot of problems. some people(sorry I'm using some a lot) just don't know what to do in relationships. Most religions say that you shouldn't divorce which is good cause the person might stay with his or her spouse and work out the problem.
i hope i helped :)

Answer 10

Because today it is easier to get a divorce than work on a marriage.

Answer 11

Not all of them do. Take my parents as a good example they've been married for going on 35 years. So that should tell you that not all marriages end in divorce. My grandparets were married for years and so where my other grandparents.