Hubby's Taurus, I'm Libra... HELP!?

Question

My dear, sweet husband and I have been married for 3 years but lately it feels like we've been "butting heads" over the little things. I've tried being nice but it feels like I'm getting nowhere. And starting last fall, we were acting like we weren't more than roommates w/ benefits. It's gotten better but still. It feels like he's forcing himself to do the extra effort and I the samething. Can somebody help me on this? Is it just me or what?

My b-day is 10/17/80 and his is 5/4/81 (same as my sisters if that helps...)

Answer 1

Practical and good-natured...with a decidedly stubborn streak...the man ruled by Taurus does possess a temper. It is slow to rise but when it does, sparks are sure to fly. He is a persistent sweetheart, a steadfast and loving mate and a marvellous father. The Taurus male likes a job where there is an end product...a definite purpose in view and a profit in which he can share. His sense of humor is the kind that appreciates his own jokes but often fails to appreciate the jokes of others. Still, this is one of the nicest men to be found in the Zodiac and he can be extremely lovable. He is not particularly skillful at telling a loved one how he feels, preferring instead to show his affection in the things that he does and provided he is coaxed rather than driven, this man will be relatively easy to manage. The attitude toward romantic interludes here is somewhat reticent. He will never be the most passionate of males, but he is certainly deeper than he allows others to know. Men governed by this Sign possess a basic understanding of life and what it is all about in practical terms. It should be noted that while some of these traits may create the impression of a dull individual, nothing could be further from the truth. This is a kind, tolerant and helpful man...and one who is usually quite handsome into the bargain.

He won't sweep you off your feet and ride away with you into a crimson sunset. It's not that he's afraid to do that, it's just that the idea would never occur to him. If his maiden fair were locked up in a tower, he'd be far more likely to call at the front gate to negotiate for her release. That's the sensible thing to do.

Above all, this man is sensible, down-to-earth and practical about love. In his approach to women he is deliberate, looking over the field before he decides. You won't find him trying to win the prize every other man is after. He wants a woman who will satisfy him for the long haul, not a glittering, chromium-plated model that's all too soon ready for the junkheap. He prizes security and stability. This is not to say he will turn down an invitation to a weekend frolic with a beautiful blonde. The world is populated with millions of sexy, sensual, casual-seeming Taurus men who certainly enjoy making love. But scratch the surface and you'll uncover a man who doesn't want a relationship unless he thinks it's going to last. When it comes to his emotional life he can afford to be patient.

He is very sensitive to a rebuff, but is so good at concealing this that most women never suspect it. He may appear too stolid to be really sensitive, but his tough-looking hide is only tissue thin. it isn't always apparent at first meeting but in his own way Taurus is supremely romantic. He puts the woman he cherishes on a pedestal, though he certainly doesn't treat her like a statue. Unlike some men who have an idealized vision that they try to super-impose on a woman, Taurus loves the real you.

This man isn't able to say "I love you" as readily as the more verbal types such as Gemini or Libra, but he will show his devotion by being unexpectedly generous. Of course, his gifts won't be frivolous because he never loses sight of the value he gets for money spent. He's the kind of man who will buy you a single, high-priced piece of jewelry rather than a dozen gaudy trinkets.

Beneath a Taurus male's reserve is a passionate, highly physical nature. for him, romance and sensuality are practically interchangeable. Like his female counterpart, he is simple and direct about his sexual pleasures.

He sees no need for variations on the theme, but on the other hand, he has all the stamina a woman could ask for. His immense physical vitality more than makes up for any lack of variety.

Here is a sensual, strong-willed, sensible man you can depend on. He's loyal, affectionate, kind, and faithful, with a fine understated sense of humor. A lot of women who are looking for Mr. Right need look no further than a Taurus male.

HOW TO ATTRACT TAURUS
Taureans are not going to be rushed. They like everything, including a friendship or a love affair, to be built on a firm foundation. That may require restraint and patience, but these are qualities Taureans appreciate for they possess those traits themselves.

Hint: The first move is up to you. Taurus is slow to make up his or her mind, and the opportunity will be gone if you don't seize the initiative.

Show them you like to be in their company, and try to amuse them. These quiet, easygoing people respond to those from whom they can borrow laughter. You'll find them charming companions, interested and interesting. A tendency to be somewhat ponderous or to go on at excessive length can be corrected with an apt remark at the right time.

If you tell a joke, remember that Taurus's sense of humor tends to be broad, robust, Rabelaisian. Physical jokes strike their funny bones.

If you're feeding a Taurus, feed him or her well. Take her to a restaurant where the chef knows his business and where you can get a good bottle of wine. Cook him a meal at home that shows you know your way around a kitchen, and don't skimp on the portions.

If the conversations start to lag, try that never-failing topic of interest: money. By all means, show off your prized possessions, from stamps to ivory miniatures to jade, or even Indian-head pennies. To a Taurean, it's all endlessly fascinating.

Don't monopolize the conversation. Once Taureans get started, they like to talk. And don't be stingy with praise—for their home, their car, their clothes, their jewelry, their just plain good taste, and above all, for them.



In order for this union to achieve longevity, each must learn to accept that the other's views of the world tend to be different in tone and focus. Libra is Cardinal in quality and Taurus is Fixed. Generally, it will be the Libra native who initiates this relationship and Taurus who will keep it going. The Taurus partner will never budge and Libra needs to understand the stubborn nature of this Sign. With some gentle persuasion, anything may be possible and there is no individual in the Zodiac who is more gifted at gentle, subtle persuasion than a native of Libra. Still, Libra's inherent indecision may irritate the direct and to-the-point native of Taurus...but as long as the Taurus partner can tone down the urge to declare that his or her way is the only acceptable one, then Libra can accept such decisions. Here, there is a mutual love of pleasure, beauty and culture. Aesthetics will be integral to both partners and their similar tastes can make for a union of great romance and harmony.


Taurus finds Libra a warm, romantic, vibrant partner. Libra was born to charm and titillate. Steady Taurus balances Libra's indecisiveness. Money may be a problem for Libra doesn't share Taurus's reverential attitude toward a dollar, but both tend to be acquisitive and like to collect beautiful things. Both signs are ruled by Venus and have sensual natures, but each expresses this quality differently. In time, Libra's fickleness and casual air toward love can drive Taurus wild; and Libra will certainly resent Taurus's possessiveness. This romantic pairing may not last long.

Answer 2

Taurus With Libra:7/10
Venus, the love goddess, rules both these and it does shine on the two lovebirds, that is, until one of them steps out of line. Then the feathers will fly. However there are common interests, and a meeting of the mind and body, making this a very good marital combination. As boyfriends and girlfriends these two get along well, but tend to be a tad bit possessive. This is the biggest thing to be careful of, tendencies will be there to test the limits of the relationships, probing to see what can be gotten away with. Their ruling planet Venus intrinsically joins these two signs. They appreciate beauty and the finer things of life. A large bank account will be needed for these two to appease their desire for luxury. Wealthy couples under this zodiac sign combination will have pure bliss, however poorer couples will be very unhappy. The success of this relationship will require Libra's sense of diplomacy and Taurus's patience. Libra an air sign loves to roam and Taurus an earth sign loves to sit and smell the roses. With understanding it could be a harmonic relationship.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Are You Astro Soulmates?
This match doesn't have high hopes for success. You might initially be drawn to a Taurus boy for his curious, sensitive side. You both share a love of music, film and art that can form a bond between you. However, after that you are pretty much different in every way. You are social and you love getting together to go out with a big group of friends. Meanwhile, he is very possessive and he'll get jealous of the time you spend with other people, even your best girlfriend. You'll find his whining about this very tiresome. He will also be very jealous with you and he'll take your innocent flirtations way too seriously. He'll never feel secure with you, and you'll never feel understood. Give this match a pass.

Answer 4

It sounds like you are in a rut. Try shaking things up a bit. Make the marriage life a little more spicy to make it seem brand new again. Can you afford a vacation? If you can't how about a weekend get away or a romantic night in? Just try doing something out of the ordinary. Ruts happen, marriage is hard work. Good luck.

Answer 5

It is a combination of air and earth elements as per sun sign and earth and air elements as per the moon sign. Many times it is you asking for more involvement and he settling for less and a few occasions when he asks for more and you settle for less. It is this difference in elements that does not offer complete fulfilment. Do not wait for marital bliss. The air element can touch the earth but finds it difficult to penetrate. Do not expect a big bang but settle for a series of small bangs.

Answer 6

He wants you to want him s*xually daily cuz theyre studs....if you dont he will get bored of you

Answer 7

HOW CAN ONE LOOK TO THE STARS FOR LIFES ANSWERS? GOD BLESS YOU! -- JAS

Answer 8

It would help if you could list birthdates.....