However I am married without children. My soulmate now wants more and he wants me to leave my husband. I do not know how to go about telling my husband that I want out. Is it fair for my soulmate to rush me in making a decision.
2007-04-09 04:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by honesty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a ruff one !
If you think you have strong fillings for this guy...Go for it !
I know everybody on this site is so judgmental ,but you must have had something wrong going on in your marriage to even start talking to the guy !
Of course he pressures you ...If you love somebody deeply all you want is to be with them....and only with them and not to share them with their husband....
Don't tell your husband you are leaving him because this guy...It will hurt him more.....Just tell him that you don't love him like you are not in love with him and take it from there !
Good luck !
2007-04-09 05:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Juliet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question is do you love your husband. I can understand that sometimes we do fall in love with two different person at the same time.
Remember you are married. Therefore I felt that your husband should be your choice.
But I think you are confused now, please dont let your soulmate be your husband and your husband be your soulmate.
2007-04-09 12:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with your "Soul mate" in the first place? What are you looking for in a relationship now that your not getting from your husband? Sometimes the act of going behind someones back to pick fruit that should be unobtainable is somehow exciting and invigorating. After you traded your hubby for your soul mate, you might find the only fun you had wasn in the hunt and now that you caught it, you might want to throw it back. Be sure you do what you do for the right reasons.
2007-04-09 12:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chazzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not fair to your husband or children. Everyone carries feelings for their first love, but that doesn't make them soul mates. You really are a fool if you think leaving your marriage and children is the right choice. You are being selfish. And so is your so called soul mate for asking you to do such a thing.
2007-04-09 12:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not fair for him to rush you. do what YOU want to do. if you want to leave your husband for your soulmate, go ahead and do it. but if you love your husband more, stay with him. life is too short to live by the rules.
2007-04-09 12:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see now...
-----It is not fair that you went and looked for your first love when you were married
-----It was not fair you started a relationship with him
-----It is not fair that you continued that relationship with him
-----It is not fair that you are stringing your husband along
Please give me your "soul mates" email and I will tell him to tell you "Contact me after you are free to date, then I may date you if I am still free"
You have no kids.... what is the problem?????
Set your husband free to find his own soul mate, it is only fair.
2007-04-09 12:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he your soulmate? and why did you marry the man your with, ask yourself these questions first before you go and run for someone who may not be the same as years ago..think hard also look at your situations..as well
2007-04-09 12:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off I have to say your very lucky to have accomplish your recent finding I wish me and my first love could be together I miss terribly and still have the very first letter he sent me however i am in a monogomous relationship and from experience i can tell you, you have to really decide what you want you don't want to lose both be honest the truth will always set you free you have to know in your heart this other guy is truly sincere if he knows your married and he's still pushing the issue watch out for that
2007-04-09 12:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by famousamos075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are now marrried...since the day you said 'YES I DO!!!'.
and i don 't think its fair for you to be cheating on your husband like that. grow up allready.. u should have thought about it before u even married if you did not loved your husband you should have not marrie him in the first place.
and how did you even located him?
i just don't understand how you can do this to your husband who has giving you everythin he can. i know he loves you cause he married you.. and what are you going to say (!hey you know what i located my first love my everything and he wants me to leave you and go with him ! HELLLLLLLOOOOOOO your married !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-09 12:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's see....
You are MARRIED and happened to find your first love who you think may be "RUSHING" you to leave your husband?
Uh, sweetie, that first love sounds like a real jerk.
He has no respect for you or your marriage.
the grass is not always greener on the other side.
Think of the consequences of your actions.
2007-04-09 12:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋