2007-04-09 04:13:17 · 23 answers · asked by cookie1231 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Before you do anything, ....night school, English grammar.
2007-04-09 04:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't thin it would be wise to interfere regarding telling his wife. If he chooses to tell her or not it is entirely up to him. It can be quite difficult for you though, if you are also a friend of his wife. You could seem caught in the middle. I think the person you need to speak with is your friend and explain your situation to him and how you feel. Maybe he wants to tell his wife, but is using you to do this for him. I would be very careful you don't get caught up in some marital mess.
2007-04-13 01:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't interfere & as a friend you shouldn't go behind his back either. Just be supportive of him, it probably took a lot of courage for him to confide in you. If you tell his wife he will never trust you again & it could also be devastating to her. It is his responsibility. Why don't you ask him if he is planning on telling his wife in a supportive way?
2007-04-10 06:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't tell his wife. You aren't involved in their marriage. Stay out of it, HOWEVER, talk to your mate about it. If your mate is stepping out and going on the down low and you know about it but his wife doesn't, tell your mate to tell his wife or you will. This type of down low behavior is responsible for the spread of STD's and HIV. It is not fair to the wife nor to you, now that you know, to withold this information.
2007-04-09 04:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He needs you to be a friend right now, someone to confide in as he sorts out this new sense of himself.
In time, he'll need to decide what he's going to do about it. Rushing through the coming out process tends to result in too much pain and misunderstanding. Let him take his time through it. He, your friendship, and his future relationship with his wife (whatever that might look like) will be stronger for the care and patience.
2007-04-09 04:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO! you dont tell his wife dont you think things are going to be tough enough for the guy. I take it you want in on some action with his wife. let the guy sort things in his own time.
2007-04-11 22:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by stevie-b-101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he told you, not his wife. You have no right to go around telling other's secrets to people.
He told you a secret, keep it a secret. The best you can do is encourage him to tell his wife himself.
2007-04-09 05:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Luis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably knows and is either happy to go along with it or is already looking for a way out, women are not so stupid as they look (thats a joke, that last bit !!).
2007-04-09 21:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it to you in confidence. If he is your mate, you should not tell anyone and certainly not his wife.
He trusts you and obviously wants to discuss it with you.
If you are so inclined, you could have sex with him. It's an interesting experience.(Use condoms and silicone based lube for your comfort and safety.)
2007-04-09 04:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your business to tell his wife, keep your nose out of it
2007-04-11 03:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to tell his wife this not you all you can do is be there for him and help him
2007-04-09 04:18:19 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋