2007-04-09 02:17:00 · 21 answers · asked by mygirlsmokey 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
all these religious nuts are too funny.
Going to a preacher will solve nothing. He will try and brainwash you (making you more unhappy and confused than you already are). He will preach to you that God doesn't like homosexuals and that you'll go to hell and that it's not the way God intended people to be. It's all a bunch of crap. religious or not, God loves everyone.
You are who you are and you're here to please just one person in this life and that's yourself. I'm a white Italian female and i can't change that..... it's the way i was born.
i hope you find content and happiness with who you are. once you can accept that, you will be confident in who you are. i hope it's sooner than later.
good luck
2007-04-10 01:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in this world would stop someone for being gay. You were either born as gay or straight or bisexual. Period. You might change to try to love the opposite sex from yours, but once you are gay and born as a gay you'll be forever gay. Be happy for whatever you are. It's not the end of the world. lol
2007-04-09 03:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was, none of us would be gay.
So there isn't.
Accept yourself, be happy being yourself. Nature requires us to be varied, so we are varied. Homogenization goes against the laws of nature.
Besides being gay isn't that big of a deal. You can have meaningful relationships, and a good life, where being gay is just a part of who you are, not the controlling factor.
Don't let it control you, it's just a piece of your puzzle.
2007-04-09 03:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting your mind straight and thinking correctly with help you stop being gay. Don't listen to the others that tell you that you were born gay. They're wrong. God created males with an instinct that attracts them to the opposite gender, not the same. The only possible way that someone is gay is if they want to have those types of feelings for the same gender. So do yourself a favor and face the truth. You're not attracted to your own gender. God created you in a way that attracts you to females, not males. So just believe that true fact and it will be impossible for you to be gay.
2007-04-09 02:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You are who you are, if you're not sure, then you need to explore options, but if you are gay, then that is as you were meant to be.
As for others here who, because of their own shortcomings, couldn't keep their wives and thus blames and hates all gays, you should merely ignore them as they have issues to tend to on their own.
Good luck with your search, hopefully you will find out the truth, gay or straight, whichever is your true calling.
2007-04-09 02:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, one can't just kiss the opposite gender and say hey im straight now just doesn't work like that. Sure you can hide the fact that you are and live a lie the rest of your life but you won't be happy with anyone you meet and one day look back and within yourself and come to terms with your sexuality but by the time its to late. Sure being Gay has its negative benefits but if you are truelly happy with your partner or way of living why hide it, its your life and your choice and not anyone elses. Comming to terms with your sexuality isn't easy for any gender - harder on males who have alot to live up to. If you are gay then that is what you are and there is no turning back but if you only have bisexual feelings then there is hope that you can be straight. Hope this helps.
2007-04-09 02:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by gatz1000 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Stand in front of a mirror and wave your finger at yourself, then say “ STOP, STOP BEING GAY. If it works then give yourself a treat.
Just kidding, if you are gay then you are gay. It’s a personal choice. If you feel that you don't want to be gay anymore then just start dating people of the opposite sex. Find out what works for you. Good Luck.
2007-04-09 02:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Stand in the mirror and say "Don't be gay, (your name here), don't be gay"
Kidding, you're either gay or your not dude, it's not something you can change at will.
2007-04-09 03:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by romanticide91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the need to stop being Gay, then you are not. Or, maybe you can stop swinging your butt and arms around, so people can't tell
2007-04-09 02:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by mari 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can't stop being gay. You are born that way.
2007-04-09 02:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋