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For you guys in your mid thirties to mid forties, do you only like younger women? Would you not consider dating someone who is your age...? If not, why?

2007-04-08 23:17:42 · 22 answers · asked by Jebbie 7 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Not me, I prefer a more mature woman who has some life experience and doesn't play childish games. I am married to a woman older than me and it is the best relationship I have ever had and the happiest I've ever been. I was married to a younger woman first and it was miserable. Yes, she was the wrong choice, but she was also immature in many ways and we just couldn't relate well with each other. She ended up moving back home to her parents. A woman who has lived, traveled and been through a variety of life experiences is much more interesting and sexy to me.

2007-04-08 23:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0 0

Sorry.. I'm not a guy and I'm not in mid forties, but I am interested to post an answer here. In my observation of all these years by travelling around Asia, mostly China and Japan (sometimes - Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand then to Canada & Europe), I can tell you that the Asian men prefer younger women who are a lot younger like 10 to 20 years younger than them (they don't mind the generation gap at all!). May be they think they can control the younger ones easier! Some girls here also like to date older men because they want more attention and the feeling being a lot younger than their spouses forever!

In my humble opinion, I think only those shallow men want to be with young cute chicks and they think it would be a fact to make them look more attractive and keep them feel young. I refer these men are swallow ones because I met some men who are totally different (most of them are my male friends, some are married too), they cherish the interactive part, the communication, the chemistry, both can talk and have their points of views on things... etc. that makes lives more fruitful.

But why you want to feel young by being with a 20 years younger girl next to you and she never can communicate with you properly? (I mean most young girls like 18 to 20 would not have a mind as a 40 year old woman or .. well a 30 year old woman, right?)

We have some real rich men have wives 30 or 40 years younger than them, well, in US, the age gap between Mr. and Mrs. Rupert Murdoch is quite much too, right?

Here we have a lot of 60+ men rush to the remote area in Mainland China to "buy" their young brides (18 to 20 years old). I'm shame to tell you all about this.

2007-04-09 03:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Aileen HK 6 · 0 0

I'm not a guy, but I'd like to put in my two cents here.

That question depends on what type of guy you're with. There are guys who are insecure and therefore need someone either always kissing up to them, or being needy towards them, or just to look beautiful and make goo goo eyes at him. They also can't handle the rejection they suffer from women closer to their age, so they retreat! Those guys look for younger women.

On the flip side, there are those men who are needy in the original sense. Perhaps they didn't get much maternal attention growing up; perhaps they got too much. They continue to seek out older women. Her duty is to pat him on the head and tell him how good he is at everything, how handsome he is, cook and cleanup after him simply because he's "little man" and deserves to be pampered. They *love* the someone who's always there to mother them and change their wittle diapers... (Just kidding! A little on the last part, I mean.)

2007-04-09 01:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Smurfette 5 · 0 0

I think some men like younger women because they think they're more attractive, or they want to feel young because they're having a mid-life crisis. Not all men are like this, so no need to worry. Soemtimes it seems that way, but I know there are some normal men

2007-04-08 23:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by sunnypaddocks 3 · 1 0

I dated a pair of older adult men a minimum of 10 years older than I. some have been fairly super, others have been terrible concerning to the comparable as adult men i've got dated around my age. I don' think of the dating's final because of the kind in questioning, i think of older adult men like the fact they'd nevertheless allure to older females, yet older females are greater what they like because of the fact they'd relate greater efficient. Older females who date youthful adult men, those relationships do nicely because of the fact females regulate greater efficient to diverse situations. (as long as they do no longer attempt to be a "mom") merely my opinion here, yet this replaced right into a very good question. Take care.

2016-10-21 10:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0 0

I'm not there yet but here is my assumption. Girls that are younger are less experienced that women that are the same age as those men. Guys that are looking for those younger women are looking for them because women the same age are onto their game and reject them.

2007-04-08 23:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 2 1

I find an older woman to be much be a much better lover. What's more, I find a plump, full-figured woman even better.

While I am physically attracted to beautiful and slim young women, I definitely prefer a full-bodied, experienced older woman in my bed.

2007-04-08 23:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1 0

Both younger and older have their own intrigues. I have dated women 30 years younger and 20 years older. Had fun with them all.

2007-04-09 06:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0 1

Yes men only like younger women....the older women could make things bored. Young women re sexy and horny

2007-04-08 23:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dexter 1 · 0 0

I am 55 and I would much rather date 2 ,16 year olds than 1, 32 year old.and would not even try with a 50 year old.

Why, because like many men, Im a pig.

Younger gurls have not learned to be such c@nts yet.

They cost more than older gurls but worth every penny of it.

They dont whine,criticize,or want as much so we give them more.

And face it, they just look better.

2007-04-08 23:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 4

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