Has it something to do with the majical qualities in the gold of the ring ?
2007-04-08 23:07:41 · 21 answers · asked by Cracker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I don't know know the sex ended for me a few months after the marriage before we got married it was all the time. Then she started trying to change me. I wont be changed she knew how I was before she married me. She was fine with it when were dating was so differant after the marriage. Now all we do is argue and she tells me how bad I am and how perfect she is LOL. When will the maddness stop?
2007-04-09 05:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Rock'n'Rob♫ 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Your wife could feel pressure now to clean the house, make dinner, take care of kids or pets, sort the mail and bills. Or she may have a high pressure job. I don't know the back round. This is a serious question and you should have more details. Perhaps you don't romance her anymore like you used to! Where are the dates, cards, flowers, gifts of days gone by, and you say where is the passionate sex.. Well perhaps you can meet her 1/2 way and get where you want to be! God created us to married and become one through his son Jesus Christ in all reality. Good luck don't throw it away!
2007-04-08 23:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Denise K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. After marriage, the frequency of sex is proportional to the extent of happiness with each other.
As long as one is not pleased or pissed off with the other, there is no mood to have sex. The longer one stays with each other or the more time one faces the other, the higher the chance of having friction and having quarrel. Therefore unhappiness is unavoidable and frequency of sex also reduces drastically. It is not the quality of rings that count.
2007-04-08 23:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by simck 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you could argue that now they have you they don't need to parade their wares as much..... It could be that they are exhausted, there's a lot women have to prepare for a wedding and pressure to look great. Now that the day is over they could be just catching up on sleep and rest that they haven't had the past year..... They might be working a lot to try and provide a comfortable life for their new family.... It could be hormonal....Or maybe the husband isn't showing her the love and affection he did when they were dating (he's got the prize whlie put the effort in)... Keep the passion alive...
2007-04-08 23:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon P 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How come as soon as men get married, the romance starts to dwindle?
2007-04-09 00:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by mother of 3 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How come as soon as a guy gets married, the courtesy, flowers, compliments, holding open doors and whispering sweet nothings into her ear dwindle?
Does it have something to do with the magical assumption that "now I've got her, now I no longer have to put any effort into it"?
2007-04-08 23:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Try feeling fresh after a whole day of mundane chores and answe that Question yourself ..
Marital sex like any other begins in other parts of the house than the bedroom alone ....
Try being nice to her in other rooms aswell ,help withthe kichen chores ,take care of her potted plants run the groceries at times and take turns with garbbage duties may be she'd feel less bothered and feel completely turned on by your positive attitude and that 'd culminate into an interesting time out with you .....
If you feel it's bull ..then may be that's the reason she's turned off ..becoz you've stopped caring about turning her on in the first place!!!
2007-04-08 23:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by doe_eyes 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
rather than the gold of the ring,
perhaps it's the spring in the thing,
that won't allow your lady to sing
you must treat her like a queen
if you're wanting to be her king
2007-04-08 23:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has something to do with the magical qualities of commitment. Before you get committed, the woman believes that she must do something to keep the man from leaving. Usually the woman chooses something that she thinks the man wants, ergo sex. After the commitment ceremony (the wedding), the woman believes that she has you and therefore doesn't need to "do something to keep you from leaving".
2007-04-08 23:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by tipp10 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same man, no more efforts for dirty nights, no more secret love, no more sneaky meetings, no more acting of a wild horny moans, no more showing new breasts to the man, no more excement of a new body, no more 100% diet, no more of nothing....
Then it comes the priorities of life when we never thought of it when we were single - in laws, mortgage, babies, pumpers.
That's life.
No wonder animals enjoy life more than us!
2007-04-08 23:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋