we haven't talked in 5 weeks. This past weekend she called and left messages twice and text me. Which is odd after no contact. Haven't talked to her yet. Think her relationship is rocky, over, or something else?
2007-04-08 23:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a real friend would not do this...they would stick by you no matter what you told them.........i have a real friend i tell her everything, things i want no one to know and she just tries to help me with my problem and i try and help her..we do not judge each other but we are there for each other when needed...and that is what a real friend is like....we have other so called friends that are doing you as this girl is...she just does not care enough about you and your problems...
2007-04-08 23:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should not have confessd your feelings to her if she had a boyfriend. That was unfair to her because it probably confused her. Second if her relationship is rocky or over or something then you should not push getting into a relationship. If she is coming out of a relationship then she will be very vulnerable and you would not be a good friend to take advantage of that situation. Be a friend but I will warn you that it will either be awkward or it will be great. But if it is great it won't last.
2007-04-08 23:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine, I had my bestfriend do that to me and I said almost the same thing to him. She wouldn't trade your friendship for anything else in the world you know, she likes you and she always does until now. She specifically said that she didn't want to be in a relationship at the moment because she just wasn't interested at the moment. She does like you, this is what it means alright? That means she still will in the future, but it all depends on you two's relationship should it grow or not. Should you stay as friends or as bf and gf. But let me tell you this, do not grow greedy. Do NOT force her for anything, stay the same. Do not be asking her again and again, or she will get tired of you. Just stay the same as you are, she loves you that way. \/(^.^)\/
2016-05-20 22:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by kassandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your relationship is on rocky ground,
this girl still seems to care about you- otherwise she wouldn't have contacted you,
but obviously if she became distant she does not want to become anything more than friends and you simply freaked her out.
its best you stay friends, if you cant control your feelings, then the relationship has to end.
2007-04-08 23:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by WOMAN! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldnt blame her,I did that once to a friend of mine,but my scenario is way worse than yours because until now she wouldnt talk to me or return any txt messages and everytime she sees me she gives an expression of disgust.Your's is better because in your case she gave you messages which can progress to being good friends again.hmmm or maybe more.
Gud Luck!=)
2007-04-08 23:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she felt that you have a feeling for her and she gave herself a time to think... If i were you i would be honest to her.its better to take a risk and try than not tryin at all,then whatever her decision,respect it atleast you made her know your true feelings for her...
2007-04-08 23:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did her messages say that she left you
2007-04-08 23:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend and see if she has feelings for you but dont be pushy
2007-04-08 23:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be a friend
2007-04-08 23:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by exotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋