My ex girlfriend will not leave me alone. She keeps calling me and my new girlfriend. We are both getting very tired of her. What 2 do?
2007-04-08 21:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by shane!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there an actual reason besides her still haveing feelings for you that she may be calling for? Ask yourself that. I mean is shes not preg then there is no excuse for her to keep bothering you. Try talking to her about it, and everything how its really over, and you have moved on, and think she should do the same.. make sure your girlfriend knows that you are going to talk things out with her so she can get that closure, and thats the only reason your even bothering.. She will leave you alone if thats all it is after that.. Also I would try to get your number changed so she cant call, or block a call using; Call Screening
Push *60. Dial 1160 on a rotary phone.
You will hear the announcement that gives the current status of the Call Screening list.
You will then hear recorded step-by-step instructions on how to add and remove numbers on your Call Screening list, or how to turn the service on or off, etc. Then she cant get through by calling anymore, and if she shows up, and starts harrassing you that way then its time to go to the police stations, and find out about getting a restraining order against her so she cant come within a certain amount of feet/miles of you, and never speak to her again.
2007-04-08 21:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats just creepy. She has no right in calling your current girlfriend thats for sure!
Give her an ultimatium. Say..This friendship isnt going to work unless you understand my boundaries. If she crosses them again by calling too often for unexplained reasons, or starts calling your gf, cut her off. Hopefully she will learn from that and in the future you may be able to have some form of a decent relationship with her again.
2007-04-08 21:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet with her and tell her directly to leave you alone, that you are no longer together and you don't want to be friends. If that doesn't work, see some of her friends or family and ask them to intervene on your behalf. You may need to take more drastic action, such as change your phone numbers and ignore her calls (ie. dont' return them) and threaten her with a restraining order. Good luck.
2007-04-08 21:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...
i think it would be best that you and your ex should have a talk...and tell her that she should stop doing that for a little respect on your current girl and i thin she needs a closure a formal thing to end your once had relationship. and make sure that your gf knows this and your intentions of seeing your ex
2007-04-08 21:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u tell her BLUNTLY to leave u alone or are u leading her on and enjoying the attentoin?? I recommend being blunt if that doesnt work threaten legal action. ( ie harassment charges)
2007-04-08 21:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her first with your current girlfriend with you. If she still persists you may want to change your number.
2007-04-08 22:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to deal with your troublesome ex - deal her a hand of Blackjack, one card down and one card up. If she says ,"Hit me"- - - - -
2007-04-08 21:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bomba 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore her. do not respond or take call from her. after a while the annoyance will go away.
good luck!
2007-04-08 21:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by ty808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her bluntly that you have moved on and it would be in her best interest to do the same.
2007-04-08 21:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋